Disconnecting/crashing on zone/after clicking server

[Cindayen]

When I go to log in from server select I get disconnected or crash. When I try again it lets me get to char select, I log in zone, crash or d/c, sometimes i can zone 2 or 3 times then it happens.

I have tried the compatibility with xp sp2, admin, both cause a run time error and wont allow me to load EQ at all. I also changed it to 1 core use, didn't help. I also changed it from the RTX 3050 to the onboard video card and nothing changed.

Computer specs are:
Windows 10
GeForce rtx 3050 gcard
AMD graphics onboard
16 gigs of ram
AMD ryzen 7 5000 series

I know that's quite a bit of over kill.