Black screen with cursor

[shummit]

Hello, this issue just starting to occur and is very annoying!
the game was running perfect "window mode" then i clicked alt enter then the screen went black with a cursor[eq's cursor with gold trimming not windows cursor] this problem occurs after i select any server on the EQemu launcher, then when i select play the screen converts to fullscreen with the cursor problem, this happening i can alt enter then it converts back to window mode, i can navigate and log into the game [login screen] then when i select project 99 or any server and click play, it will convert me back into fullscreen mode with the same issue then give me a memory issue.

ideally i would prefer to play in window-mode 1920x1080 resolution again.

system specs
win7 64-bit
Nvidia 250GTS - driver is fully updated.
i5 quad core - [ selected the 1 core option in the eqemu launcher under options ]

thanks in advance,
chris