I tried to like it... I really tried...advice?

[Genedin]

Perhaps I played on a "rainbows and butterflies" server back in classic.

I played on tarrew-marr. The premier guild was "Engligtned Dark"

They were amazing, super elite, had the best items and spent all their time playing.

I had no illusions with my more casual play style I would never join that guild and that did not bother me.

On this same server I successfully organized and led a pick-up Naggy raid. How? Because the elite 1 or 2 guilds that ran the server didn't care about monopolizing ALL of the content. Also there was Velious by the time I was 50 so perhaps that will help in the future.

Thanks for all of the snide and immediately jumping to "this guy just wants to cry and get twinked" conclusions even though I never asked for a thing. That is classic.