help a newb out!!!!! i'm indecisive!!!

[Snaggles]

You will likely play the character hundreds if not many thousands of hours.

Read the wiki and the racial pages. The more you know about the class and race the more pride you might take in the selection. It will keep you going when things are slow or frustrating.

EQ classes and tattoos, two things that a bit of time and thought help with immensely.