How can I stop watching porn?

[NopeNopeNopeNope]

Oh and stopping porn and especially stopping fapping as often (within reason obviously) tends to improve how attractive you’ll see IRL women AND how horny you will be. I know there’s bro’s that are like nah man, every time I fap I just get hornier, I fap like 82 times a day breugh. That’s cool, for most of us people with different brains than that, generally the longer we go without fapping the hornier we get

And being horny is an advantage on dates, not a disadvantage IMO. That scene in Something About Mary where that friend suggested having a wank before a date is a looooaaad of shiiiit. What you want to have no sexual thoughts so you can sit and talk about video games and fashion and gossip about other boys and then give her a high five and a handshake after the date? Way to friendzone yourself

No you want that horniness driving you to make moves, just don’t be a creeper about it. The hornier you can get before a date the better. You’re going to be anxious as fuck either way I promise, better to be an anxious but having some semblance of lust rather than being anxious and having her be your therapist

[Reiwa]

Originally Posted by NopeNopeNopeNope [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Oh and stopping porn and especially stopping fapping as often (within reason obviously) tends to improve how attractive you’ll see IRL women AND how horny you will be. I know there’s bro’s that are like nah man, every time I fap I just get hornier, I fap like 82 times a day breugh. That’s cool, for most of us people with different brains than that, generally the longer we go without fapping the hornier we get

And being horny is an advantage on dates, not a disadvantage IMO. That scene in Something About Mary where that friend suggested having a wank before a date is a looooaaad of shiiiit. What you want to have no sexual thoughts so you can sit and talk about video games and fashion and gossip about other boys and then give her a high five and a handshake after the date? Way to friendzone yourself

No you want that horniness driving you to make moves, just don’t be a creeper about it. The hornier you can get before a date the better. You’re going to be anxious as fuck either way I promise, better to be an anxious but having some semblance of lust rather than being anxious and having her be your therapist

I get that addiction has a clinical meaning about how much it impacts your life or whatever. But OP seems like he's been tricked by the YouTube into thinking he's a major gooner when he's not anywhere close.

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Originally Posted by Reiwa [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I get that addiction has a clinical meaning about how much it impacts your life or whatever. But OP seems like he's been tricked by the YouTube into thinking he's a major gooner when he's not anywhere close.

Yea unless he’s doing porn marathons a couple x/week seems like pretty “normal” use of average what I suspect all men’s use to be. It’s more than I do, I’ll say that though

Then that still leaves a lot of other problems like possibly messing with standards. An easy way to tell is, do you go out of your way to seek out average or even maybe slightly below average looking women in your choice of porn? Or do you go for the hottest (probably fake or cartoon in the case of a lot of guys) possible women you can find? And if you had to downgrade your porn standards, would you find that disappointing? Or would you even be able to get off? These are rhetorical I am in no way interested in anyone’s answer lol. Just food for thought

I’m sure people disagree but there is no changing my mind that even infrequent or average amounts of porn viewing messes with our idea of standards and what we imagine women’s standards are. Remember that one dude in RnF who wife left him and he spent like 4 or 5 posts theorizing how big the other guy’s dick must be? Yeah, that dude watches way too much porn lol

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Remember that one dude in RnF who wife left him and he spent like 4 or 5 posts theorizing how big the other guy’s dick must be? Yeah, that dude watches way too much porn lol

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And with society the way it is these days with so few men dating

dating is as new a concept for our species as the color television in the grand scheme of things, penguins have been practicing monogamy long than we have iirc also

he practice of dating, as it's understood in modern Western culture, is a relatively recent phenomenon, gaining prominence in the 20th century
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you're literally just projecting weird shit. lol. unless the goal is to actually get married and have kids (lol) theirs apps for the other things.

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i miss all the good threads

Right? We have past overzealous mods chasing too many people away to blame for that

dating is as new a concept for our species as the color television in the grand scheme of things, penguins have been practicing monogamy long than we have iirc also

Well, true, and I’m no history buff but I guess historically in a lot of places women didn’t have the freedom to choose who they married. Things are a bit different now, but that’s no reason to give up, IMO

It’s like that scene in Borat:

“Borat: [while driving] Look, there is a woman in a car! Can we follow her and maybe make a sexy time with her?
Driving Instructor: No, no, no, no, no, no!
Borat: A-why not?
Driving Instructor: Because a woman has the right to choose who she has sex with.
Borat: [stunned] WHAT...? You joke?
Driving Instructor: It must be consensual. How 'bout that?
Borat: Ahahahahaha!
Driving Instructor: That's good, huh?
Borat: [stops laughing] Is not good for me”

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And with society the way it is these days with so few men dating, it’s funny to consider that if I had the power to put a cap on everyone’s porn viewing to where they could still watch as much as they wanted, but it could only be of women they could actually conceivably date IRL in their current position in life

How devastating would that be to so many dudes? Dudes would be offing themselves lol

[Ekco]

yeah i'm not advocating for a return to raping and pillaging, but there's a lot to be said about pair bonding in in your teens and early 20s, once that ship sails, your options are basically limited to being a step dad or confirmed bachelor

playing house at our age and playing the field is just as weird as anything anyone else is doing