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[unsunghero]

Originally Posted by Elfminster [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

If men are nothing more than heartless beings who only care about sex then temptation wouldn't exist to them and neither would a lot of other things like guilt and shame. They wouldn't care about beauty so they wouldn't differentiate women from men. They would have sex with animals and children. Every man would be an unapologetic rapist. They wouldn't care about being caught.

That's feminist ideaology.

Huh? You can do the same scenario for women, I just picked men because I assumed you are a guy. This wasn’t meant to be men-only

Both attractive men and attractive women are equally tempted to cheat at the same rate based on how many people are attracted to them. They are both tempted at a higher level than ugly people of either gender who don’t get hit on are

[Elfminster]

Originally Posted by unsunghero [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Huh? You can do the same scenario for women, I just picked men because I assumed you are a guy. This wasn’t meant to be men-only

Both attractive men and attractive women are equally tempted to cheat at the same rate based on how many people are attracted to them. They are both tempted at a higher level than ugly people of either gender who don’t get hit on are

There's no such thing as cheating or faithfulness if we only care about sex.

There's no such thing as beauty or ugly if we only care about sex.

There's no such thing as temptation or fighting temptation if we only care about sex.

[unsunghero]

Originally Posted by Elfminster [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

There's no such thing as cheating or faithfulness if we only care about sex.

There's no such thing as beauty or ugly if we only care about sex.

There's no such thing as temptation or fighting temptation if we only care about sex.

I didn’t say we only care about sex. I dunno if this is news to ya but some humans cheat in their relationships. The exact rates are hard to stamp down, same as the exact rates of illegal hard drug abuse, because people don’t like admitting to these things even sometimes anonymously

[Danth]

Fidelity is a matter of character, not physical attributes.

[unsunghero]

Originally Posted by Danth [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Fidelity is a matter of character, not physical attributes.

Temptation =/= fidelity

I am saying that attractive people are tempted to cheat at a higher rate than ugly people who have few or no options on who they can sleep with

And I feel like arguing this is trying to prove that water is wet. Appearances matter, and they matter to both sexes. Maybe not exactly equally, but pretty close IMO

Whether you cheat or not is up to your convictions, character and willpower. I have more respect for an attractive person who stays faithful than an ugly person though, because they are tempted on a higher level

I personally would never cheat because I have first hand witnessed the emotional devastation my dad cheating on my mom did

Other convictions of mine, however, fly out the window based on how hot the girl is. For example, if I was on a Match date and the girl said “hey, I have a list of guys that I sleep with, and you can join that list, interested?”. Ima have to pass

HOWEVER, if the actress that plays Daenerys came up to me and said “hey, I have a list of guys I sleep with, and I’d like to add you to that list, interested?” I’d be like, absolutely

[unsunghero]

Ima head this off at the pass

Before anyone bothers to try to tell me appearances don’t matter. My response is:

[Elfminster]

Originally Posted by unsunghero [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I didn’t say we only care about sex. I dunno if this is news to ya but some humans cheat in their relationships. The exact rates are hard to stamp down, same as the exact rates of illegal hard drug abuse, because people don’t like admitting to these things even sometimes anonymously

You're not saying some humans cheat.

You're saying all humans cheat but not all humans have the opportunity to cheat.

Your evidence is the way a celeb on tv talks about another celeb.

But if we are all cheats then we wouldn't care about being faithful.

[unsunghero]

Originally Posted by Elfminster [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

You're not saying some humans cheat.

You're saying all humans cheat but not all humans have the opportunity to cheat.

Your evidence is the way a celeb on tv talks about another celeb.

But if we are all cheats then we wouldn't care about being faithful.

Why would I say “all” humans cheat? Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? 100% of people on earth have cheated in their relationships? False

I never claimed this, not even close. The actual percent of people that cheat that only God knows is probably still less than 40%

[Reiwa]

Originally Posted by unsunghero [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

HOWEVER, if the actress that plays Daenerys came up to me and said “hey, I have a list of guys I sleep with, and I’d like to add you to that list, interested?” I’d be like, absolutely

G'day mate. That Sheila's a dingo!

[Elfminster]

Originally Posted by unsunghero [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Why would I say “all” humans cheat? Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? 100% of people on earth have cheated in their relationships? False

I never claimed this, not even close. The actual percent of people that cheat that only God knows is probably still less than 40%

You cant prove any of it.

That's the funny thing about it all.