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you claim to have military service, this is likely your monthly allowance from them.
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Second, you definitely have some TBI at least because flashing a couple hundred bucks in cash in some shitty strip club to impress elves shows some definite signs of TBI.
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Can you get a real job after the brainwashing?
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Don't be a dumb joe and leave money on the table. Like I said, if you're too "proud", take it and donate it to a veterans charity or something. Plenty of folks not getting enough for what they put in.
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So it was really offensive to be doing well in college, and doing well in my EMS work, to have a doctor at the VA tell me that I couldn't do that type of work that I needed to spend the rest of my life on disability. I actually sought help originally because I just didn't feel right, I felt like I was insane or something, and I didn't used to feel like that. And I for sure had a TBI, but it doesn't prevent me from being able to work. In a lot of ways my PTSD and TBI made me a better person because they mellowed me out a lot. Before I was really arrogant and hateful. Now I go out of my way to avoid conflict and to help other people when I can. | |||
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Now, if you meant to say their pension pay (if they retired with at least twenty years) combined with their 100% disability pay that would be closer to accurate. As to your moral dilemma. I assume your friend is an honorable. That’s why he repaid the loan. It would be insulting to him to try and give it back. More valuable than returning the money would be to have a BBQ with him or help him with a project. Maybe you will each take from it something much more valuable than money. Best wishes, Lee. | |||
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