Cheap Sex and the Decline of Marriage

[Patriam1066]

Originally Posted by skarlorn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I don't find modern women puzzling and I don't find the divorce epidemic puzzling, either.

The real topic of interest to me is how to grow a deep relationship with another human and have it survive the crux of sexlessness which seems to occur for most. It takes a specific type of woman and not all women are matured to the point of being ready for this. Our culture keeps people trapped in an adolescent sexual neverland fantasy for a long time which manifests differently for men and women. However, success still happens. Patriam seems to have some things figured out in this field of fuckling, so I try and listen to that guy.

There’s nothing to figure out. P99 is a circle jerk of autism. That’s man congregating without females in his natural state. Monogamy is a sacrifice. I could dick 30 year olds. However, I really and truly love my wife and realize she’s probably given up more than I have over the years by putting up with a man, which is essentially a perpetual adolescent. Basically, if you’re not a misogynist and make some minor effort to be romantic, a fulfilling relationship is possible

Sadly, most dudes would rather make excuses now as to why women are the problem. They’re too liberal, they’re too demanding, they’re too x y or z. So you guys grew up with the most independent, financially responsible, and confident generation of women in human history and you complain about it. If you ask me, that just makes finding the right one more entertaining and gratifying. But I’m a republican who doesn’t believe in playing the victim or making excuses for myself. That’s how dad did it. That’s how America does it

[Patriam1066]

As an aside, it helps to come from a culture that doesn’t accept divorce. You peckerwoods are legitimately too quick to call it quits. Marriage is hard at times. I’ve never slept on the couch but I did take a week off from work in my 40s and go to the ranch, alone, to get shit faced with the Czech rednecks and shoot guns to get the hell away from my wife. Then I came back and groveled for forgiveness

[Wonkie]

Originally Posted by Patriam1066 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

As an aside, it helps to come from a culture that doesn’t accept divorce. You peckerwoods are legitimately too quick to call it quits. Marriage is hard at times. I’ve never slept on the couch but I did take a week off from work in my 40s and go to the ranch, alone, to get shit faced with the Czech rednecks and shoot guns to get the hell away from my wife. Then I came back and groveled for forgiveness

ever try gay porn? shemales count

[Irulan]

Patriam is indeed 97% correct.

mblake it's ok to talk about us now without perpetually shaming trans stereotypes. People still do, but it's not all anymore. We've always been here. I'm probably the only one ever really actively engaging. The others just sort of sit in the shadows or aren't out.

BigJ is a special case. But I'd rather let her speak up for herself. She's like me, but different. We aren't some kind of new thing, were all different. We're more noticeable now because culture thinks of gender differently now. You can thank politicians on both sides for making an issue of us. They in part drove us into the public space and outed us. And yeah the internet made this happen quickly.

I think EQ attracts trans ppl for the same reasons it does everyone else. It's an escape. And it's addictive. Trans people probably use EQ as more of an emotional crutch than most. I can't speak for every trans lady though.

I broke my eq habit, but this sort of had always been my way of socializing ever since b4 transition. I just sorta stuck around.

I actually care a little bit about everyone here and like them, even if they can be mean boys.

[Patriam1066]

Originally Posted by Wonkie [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

ever try gay porn? shemales count

No weirdo I grew up before plastic was in the water and turned y’all into high estrogen pansies

[DinoTriz]

No one ever answered my question of why shemales suck better dick than women.

[JurisDictum]

Originally Posted by Patriam1066 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

No weirdo I grew up before plastic was in the water and turned y’all into high estrogen pansies

Gays actually have higher testosterone on average.

Look, it used to be pretty easy to get killed for being gay...still is some places. So only the better genetically endowed made it through the evolution game.

At least that's my theory.

[skarlorn]

Originally Posted by Patriam1066 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I’ve never slept on the couch but I did take a week off from work in my 40s and go to the ranch, alone, to get shit faced with the Czech rednecks and shoot guns to get the hell away from my wife. Then I came back and groveled for forgiveness

lol when I read shit like this I seriously wonder if you know people from my clan. We're one of the biggest Czech families in TX and this is literally how males operate. gives me some homesickness tbh.

Thanks for your thoughtful posts. I can't figure out a way to respond that isn't totally me-centric. Suffice to say I'm just guarding my cock right now b/c sex is easy to come by and trying to really hold out for a suitable partner.

When I get horny I am really tempted to go bootycalling. But then I think about all the psychic entanglement that happens and feel like it's better to keep my mind clear so that I can devote that energy to the right woman when I meet her. Hoping she is from a good family and that I can resolve all the inner bullshit from my broken past to be a good man to her and the spawn of my seed.

I humbly devote my life in the service of the universe, aka jesus christ and ask only for the strength necessary to accomplish the tasks set forth unto me; and then to perish in a manner befitting my nature. hail god00

[LulzSect©]

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[DinoTriz]

Originally Posted by JurisDictum [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Gays actually have higher testosterone on average.

Look, it used to be pretty easy to get killed for being gay...still is some places. So only the better genetically endowed made it through the evolution game.

At least that's my theory.

What's that stand up comedian bit? "You have to be pretty manly to get fucked in the ass by other dude."

All that hair and muscle, not to mention the prolapsed anus.

I'm too Beta for all that.