Making a bard. Looking for advice.

[Legidias]

I did 5 STR, rest STA myself on my WE bard/

Dex is meaningless unless you really want those procs (which you wont have much of since non-twink). Yes, it does help your songs with missed notes a bit, but missed notes arent fizzles; they cost no mana and you can just recast with like 0.1 sec delay.

Cha is more of an ongoing arguement. I personally don't believe it affects bard charm or mez in the least bit (through personal obserations). Cha DOES help with critical lull resists, which is important because bard pulling is pretty prolific early on and mid career. However, CHA gear is extremely cheap. For example, a +30 CHA head piece is ~500p. You can look at cheap enchanter cha gear for examples, but you really dont need CHA that badly as long as its over 100 at least. Later on, like 30+, you might want a CHA set if you're really set on being a puller.