Tell me whose at fault here

[Canelek]

So you are saying that a Froglok bok knight tries to hit YOU, but misses?

Sorry, that was a lot of information to parse.

That said, if the group left as you were already engaged with a mob, that would be pretty poor form, and bad things are likely to happen. Kind of a dick move to leave you hanging.

If there was already a consensus to not fight back up, and you decided to be a maverick anyway, then it is your fault.