Making time to play?

[woodz]

As everyone else has said, you just need to have a chat with your girl and kind of drive home how necessary it is for a bit of solo time. It's not a reflection on her, it's just a basic human requirement for most of us.

Between work, playing a heap of sport and various other activities, initially I really struggled to get game time in when the girlfriend moved in. These days I get an hour or so in at night while she watches real housewives of who gives a fuck. It helps that we're in the same room and can still chat - that was a key aspect of me getting back on p99 (the only laptop I have is old as hell and can't run anything remotely modern).

I also chose a class that I knew would solo well as I knew longer stretches of group play would be rare and only occur sporadically on weekends. Hence, the druid. Worst case I just take off anon and do some ports while semi-afk during a weeknight when we're hanging out.

tldr; chat with your girl.