is contagious?

[vaylorie]

Wow, lots of information to process. Thanks everyone!

I'll summarize a couple things that I think I'm hearing but please set me straight (no pun intended).

1) I should ask my doctor to get vaccinated so that we can still be friends.
2) Technically, I'd only be gay if I am the one sucking the dick or if I'm the one taking it in the ass. Getting a BJ and pounding an ass is fine? I'll ask him then, maybe he's just getting some ass from some guy(s) and not really gay.

The only thing I still worry about is his safety. His birthday is coming up, would it be in poor taste to give him some condoms? I just worry since all gay people have AIDS.

Thanks!