Any pickup group should be roll on everything imo. If I join a pickup group, I'm there for exp and loot just like everyone else and /random gives everyone a fair shot. If you're not cool with that, make sure you have the loot policy known in advance and if you don't like it, don't group with them.
If there really is an item that you need that can only be camped with a group, be sociable, make some friends and put together your own group for the purpose of getting that item, and then be ready to help one of those people out in the future when they need it.
And Falkun, I have no sympathy for bards who can PL themselves and kill 100 mobs at a time.
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