what most of you will not understand

[xshayla701]

Abacab, this is not a "who has the bigger plight" argument. Men AND women fight for this country and risk their lives. so that if I was raped, I'd not be laughed at for reporting it. The point you're trying to make is that men get punished harder, scrutinized more, etc. I get it. But with that you are forgetting that (whether I want to admit it or not) this country and WORLD is ultimately run by men. Yes it's gotten more balanced out recently but you can't bullshit me with your "facts" about how men get it up the ass in the courtroom and overseas and have it so fucking bad. If you want all the fucking control and responsibility, take all the punishment. It's the same argument for the feminists who want "equal rights" and equal wages and opportunities and all that - which is nice - but also want their boyfriend to pay for their dinner every time. Equal rights means EQUAL - give, take. That goes all around, imo.

Way to get way off topic.

[Abacab "The REAL truth"]

Originally Posted by xshayla701 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Abacab, this is not a "who has the bigger plight" argument. Men AND women fight for this country and risk their lives. so that if I was raped, I'd not be laughed at for reporting it. The point you're trying to make is that men get punished harder, scrutinized more, etc. I get it. But with that you are forgetting that (whether I want to admit it or not) this country and WORLD is ultimately run by men. Yes it's gotten more balanced out recently but you can't bullshit me with your "facts" about how men get it up the ass in the courtroom and overseas and have it so fucking bad. If you want all the fucking control and responsibility, take all the punishment. It's the same argument for the feminists who want "equal rights" and equal wages and opportunities and all that - which is nice - but also want their boyfriend to pay for their dinner every time. Equal rights means EQUAL - give, take. That goes all around, imo.

Way to get way off topic.

Feminists only want to be equal on a political and social sphere, as in they only care about pure equality as long as it doesn't become detrimental which is akin to being treated like some angsty teen. You want to do everything and be treated like an adult but you don't want to bare any form of responsibility and when clashing with authority will always choose the path of MOST resistance.

So why do you expect men to take the full burden of responsibility? You can only use the patriarchal society argument so long before it's redundant and it simply becomes the ad nauseam for every plight facing womanhood, but the issue is women take zero responsibility but want full privilege at the cost of everyone else and that diminishes the rights of everyone not specifically just men. There is a reason why there is a long slew of political correctness, harassment clauses, "women only" places, and that's because of the same argument I stated above, you want privilege as opposed to pure equality.

As for the women dying for the country that's just lol, women getting hit by ricochet fire does not constitute fighting for a country, that's just standing around in the wrong place, at the wrong time. The moment I see a youtube of some woman straight up combt knifing several insurgents down in the middle of a conflict I'll be more likely believe it... but I'm fairly certain women in the military are restricted to non-combative support roles.

[xshayla701]

It sounds like you're grouping all women into a category and saying I'm going to make a false rape report. But that's fucking idiotic so I'll assume that's not what you meant. That's like saying all men are rapists. I'd never do that to a guy if I regretted having sex with him when I was drunk even if I consented. But yes, some girls do this.

[xshayla701]

Abacab=troll <3

Daldoma: I'm not disagreeing with you at all. I guess I did put emphasis on the stranger danger when it is more likely to be raped by someone you see somewhat often. I realize that. And I know it's unlikely, but it's not impossible.

On my college campus a girl was walking back from taking an exam from a building I went to every single day. It was about 10 at night. A man tried to attack her and she screamed for help. Luckily someone heard her and the man ran off but I could have easily been that girl. I had an exam the day before at 8pm in a building right next door to where it happened.

No, it's not a constant fear of mine. But like you said, I don't usually put myself in situations that I need to be afraid of. That doesn't mean it never crosses my mind. So I have to disagree with you in that you can understand that fear. Men generally don't fear being raped. It is impossible for you to understand the fear of having a man overpower in such a way. It's not that you don't try to understand or you don't care or you don't have the empathy or capability. You just can't understand. That was what I was getting at.

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[xshayla701]

Originally Posted by xshayla701 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Daldoma: I'm not disagreeing with you at all.
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So I have to disagree with you

young contradicting lol

[Tiggles]

Lets talk about the real problem

* Blacks are seven times more likely than people of other races to commit murder, and eight times more likely to commit robbery.
* When blacks commit crimes of violence, they are nearly three times more likely than non-blacks to use a gun, and more than twice as likely to use a knife.
* Hispanics commit violent crimes at roughly three times the white rate, and Asians commit violent crimes at about one quarter the white rate.
* The single best indicator of violent crime levels in an area is the percentage of the population that is black and Hispanic.

Interracial Crime

* Of the nearly 770,000 violent interracial crimes committed every year involving blacks and whites, blacks commit 85 percent and whites commit 15 percent.
* Blacks commit more violent crime against whites than against blacks. Forty-five percent of their victims are white, 43 percent are black, and 10 percent are Hispanic. When whites commit violent crime, only three percent of their victims are black.
* Blacks are an estimated 39 times more likely to commit a violent crime against a white than vice versa, and 136 times more likely to commit robbery.
* Blacks are 2.25 times more likely to commit officially-designated hate crimes against whites than vice versa.

Gangs

* Only 10 percent of youth gang members are white.
* Hispanics are 19 times more likely than whites to be members of youth gangs. Blacks are 15 times more likely, and Asians are nine times more likely.

Incarceration

* Between 1980 and 2003 the US incarceration rate more than tripled, from 139 to 482 per 100,000, and the number of prisoners increased from 320,000 to 1.39 million.
* Blacks are seven times more likely to be in prison than whites. Hispanics are three times more likely.

Not that it answers your question directly it does give an idea of some of the rates.
Source(s):
Arrest data: FBI, Crime in the United States, 2001
(USGPO, 2002), p. 252. FBI, Crime in the United States, 2002
(USGPO, 2003), p. 252. FBI, Crime in the United States, 2003
(USGPO, 2004), p. 288

[Pico]

Originally Posted by Tiggles [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Lets talk about the real problem

* Blacks are seven times more likely than people of other races to commit murder, and eight times more likely to commit robbery.
* When blacks commit crimes of violence, they are nearly three times more likely than non-blacks to use a gun, and more than twice as likely to use a knife.
* Hispanics commit violent crimes at roughly three times the white rate, and Asians commit violent crimes at about one quarter the white rate.
* The single best indicator of violent crime levels in an area is the percentage of the population that is black and Hispanic.

Interracial Crime

* Of the nearly 770,000 violent interracial crimes committed every year involving blacks and whites, blacks commit 85 percent and whites commit 15 percent.
* Blacks commit more violent crime against whites than against blacks. Forty-five percent of their victims are white, 43 percent are black, and 10 percent are Hispanic. When whites commit violent crime, only three percent of their victims are black.
* Blacks are an estimated 39 times more likely to commit a violent crime against a white than vice versa, and 136 times more likely to commit robbery.
* Blacks are 2.25 times more likely to commit officially-designated hate crimes against whites than vice versa.

Gangs

* Only 10 percent of youth gang members are white.
* Hispanics are 19 times more likely than whites to be members of youth gangs. Blacks are 15 times more likely, and Asians are nine times more likely.

Incarceration

* Between 1980 and 2003 the US incarceration rate more than tripled, from 139 to 482 per 100,000, and the number of prisoners increased from 320,000 to 1.39 million.
* Blacks are seven times more likely to be in prison than whites. Hispanics are three times more likely.

Not that it answers your question directly it does give an idea of some of the rates.
Source(s):
Arrest data: FBI, Crime in the United States, 2001
(USGPO, 2002), p. 252. FBI, Crime in the United States, 2002
(USGPO, 2003), p. 252. FBI, Crime in the United States, 2003
(USGPO, 2004), p. 288

i really hope you're implying "the real problem" is that poor black people are trapped in their socioeconomic situation due to appauling social policies and systemic racism.

[Harrison]

I was going to go outside today, but a house might have fell out of the sky on top of me. I stayed inside.

[Ihealyou]

I heard that if a guy carries around condoms he's a player, but if a girl does it she's a slut. Is this true?

[nalkin]

Originally Posted by Ihealyou [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I heard that if a guy carries around condoms he's a player, but if a girl does it she's a slut. Is this true?

carrying around a condominium is gross regardless of your gender. Its gross for the trivial reason, which is, its slimy and slippery. Not only that, its gross on the mental level as well. In my practice not being prepared means you must go out and get prepared before the act which gives you time to think it over. By then you realize a car trip is not worth the 30 seconds of pleasure.