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Originally Posted by HeallunRumblebelly
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He's made decisions based on past information, how things worked previously (get job, buy house, work hard--it's important to realize he was capable of paying for the house when he signed). He got sidelined by unforseeable things (illness, layoffs due to economic problems he most likely did not cause). And now he's getting fucked by a system that doesn't really provide a way out except to go be homeless with the rest of Detroit. Really.
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Taking on a debt that is about 45% of your gross annual income is not a result of how things worked previously. Even operating under the mentality that the asset will grow in value it is unbelievable to call this a good move based on the monthly cost vs. income. So no, he could not afford the house when he signed it.
Clearly this is the case as he then started racking up the credit card debt by (self-admittedly) being a 'dummy'. Again, this is not sidelined by unforeseeable things, this is poor decision making. Then taking out a second mortgage to pay your credit card debt, meaning that you are now putting your house on the line for that stake dinner that you ate 6 months ago. Again, not unforeseeable things.
At that point, finding yourself unemployed is likely unforeseeable. That being said, prior to the string of poor decision making, if it was a priority to have money set aside for an emergency fund, a layoff or unemployment situation is no longer a clusterfuck as a few people tried to mention before.
Illness is also unforeseeable, but the illness and job loss is not what caused all of these things to happen. Poor choices caused all of these things to happen. If, as you said, he was able to afford the house when he got it, that would be a different story but that's not the case.
A fundamental difference is that I see an unfortunate situation and say "wow, things could have been so much different if different choices were made" and view it as a learning experience. You look at the situation and say "wow, this guy worked hard and did the right thing but got shit on by things outside of his control, things could be so much different if the system wasn't so jacked up". From your perspective, there is no learning experience and no impetus to not make the same mistakes and find yourself in the same situation again since nothing that was done was wrong. This is a recipe for a miserable life. You are where you are today as a result of 5% Luck/Chance/Randomness and 95% the sum total of the decisions that you have made.