i met an older woman a few weeks ago at the bar

[phacemeltar]

i was wasted, and of course didnt remember right away, as she texted me. being the upstanding human that i am, i admitted to not remembering her.. to which she replied with this text:

We met at the [name of bar removed]. You asked me if I could climb you. I did in like 3 seconds sat on your shoulders and then you ran into the bathroom with me and we made out and then both went pee and I asked you if you were a Gemini cuz I am and you said yes. We laughed out asses off and then you had to leave. But gave me your number before you left.

after that text we made plans to hang out.. but i had to cancel. fast forward to tonight, she wants to hang out again. finally we can go to her place because her son (who's my age) is no longer staying at her house, so we can have fun. only problem is, im not feeling super fun right now, some real life stresses have me down and all i want to do is play videogames with my pup.

im a little nervous that i will disappoint her with my current mood, as she made it very clear that she is only interested in having fun and staying up all night. ive managed to avoid tonight, but common sense tells me that the next time we hang out it will have to be me doing the invitation.

am i overthinking this? i dont want to fuck around and have her go psycho on me because im being a downer or something else (i know how volatile women can be) and i might be jumping to assumptions thinking that she just wants to fuck. any advice? i know alot of you betas research situations like this regularly, maybe you can provide some insight. thanks.

[big_ole_jpn]

just snort some coke and be friendly you nerd, she wants your dick

[Spyder73]

Originally Posted by big_ole_jpn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

just snort some coke and be friendly you nerd, she wants your dick

Pretty much the best advise in the thread

[AzzarTheGod]

Originally Posted by Spyder73 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Pretty much the best advise in the thread

another r/9k troll giving advice. nice try dude

he shouldn't do shit if hes not feeling it or bad at managing other peoples emotions.

he has no reason to complicate his life right now he sounds pretty happy otherwise he would have made a move.

HE HAS NO VIBE on her. HE WAS BLACKED OUT. I MET 100's of girls a year while blacked out or under the influence in college, guess how many I called after taking their number? Zero. If I didn't smash that night, its over. I don't need to carry something on with something I know fuckall about, that's just asking for trouble.

Unless I had a good vibe, I didn't bother. That's how real social dynamics work.

Alpha nothing you hair thinned r/9k scum.

[big_ole_jpn]

Originally Posted by AzzarTheGod [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

another r/9k troll giving advice. nice try dude

he shouldn't do shit if hes not feeling it or bad at managing other peoples emotions.

he has no reason to complicate his life right now he sounds pretty happy otherwise he would have made a move.

HE HAS NO VIBE on her. HE WAS BLACKED OUT. I MET 100's of girls a year while blacked out or under the influence in college, guess how many I called after taking their number? Zero. If I didn't smash that night, its over. I don't need to carry something on with something I know fuckall about, that's just asking for trouble.

Unless I had a good vibe, I didn't bother. That's how real social dynamics work.

Alpha nothing you hair thinned r/9k scum.

beta advocating you losing a notch on your belt over a momentary low mood.

rise above it dude, bad moods are temporary but your score is some forever shit. Its not every day u get to smash an older broad too she probably knows some tricks that will cheer u right on up. This could be ur ticket out of the dumps.

[AzzarTheGod]

my virgin cuck loser friends would be like "dude u should call that girl from that party". "oh I heard u didn't smash that girl u met at that party #134 out of #250 parties a year, you know, the one where my other virgin cuck friend was there so he could see you work and pick up this girl".

I'd hear about this like 50 parties later from that specific circle of beta cucks....not surprising not one of them had more than 2 sexual partners their entire adult lives.

id be like ???????? maybe you should if you are so hard up for it, might lose that v-card finally so you can get off my jock and stop vicariously living through me

this happens a lot, beta cucks will ride omega dick and promote manwhoring and discuss your sex life while having NOTHING going on in their own life.

I had to cut a few people off over that shit.

[Spyder73]

Originally Posted by big_ole_jpn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

This could be ur ticket out of the dumps.

And into the mumps!

Worn out V that has 30+ extra years of possible STD transactions... add in that she probably grew up in the 70s/hippy movement and you arrive at hepatitis C/genital warts

[Baler]

Before I respond,. did she get off your shoulders in the restroom before you two made out and pissed together? I wont judge. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Just be confident. Even if she doesn't want to do whoopy. Make her smile, be joyful. The world can be negative far too much. Just have fun. Don't over thinking it that's for sure. Be natural about it or it won't roll well. Think god damn I got this amazing body that this lady wants to be next to. Fuck yeah. (amazing body or not,. it sounds like she wants to be near you in some way) you have half the battle out of the park. The rest is just making it around the bases.If she slips into something more comfortable you'll know,.. you'll know. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]
I know what it's like to be a downer around a woman who seems into you. You can only milk that sympathy so far before they want you to go man mode.

[big_ole_jpn]

Originally Posted by Baler [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Even if she doesn't want to do whoopy. Make her smile, be joyful.

stopped reading this beta advice right here

[Baler]

Originally Posted by big_ole_jpn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

stopped reading this beta advice right here

Well he said she was an older woman,. don't they use the word whoopy?
Also he said he was feeling down. I don't know about him this is true. But for me it makes me happy to make other people happy or at least smile. I don't see how this hurts his chances.