Health, fitness, gains and wellbeing

[Reiwa]

Without being mean:

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[Ciderpress]

Good lord.. I'm sorry I opened this pandora's box (of donuts).

[Reiwa]

Originally Posted by Ciderpress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Good lord.. I'm sorry I opened this pandora's box (of donuts).

[Ciderpress]

So here's the conundrum: She's actually pretty, but insanely fat. Is that better or worse than being fit but really ugly? Not in terms of life expectancy, but in terms of society?

[NopeNopeNopeNope]

Originally Posted by Ciderpress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So here's the conundrum: She's actually pretty, but insanely fat. Is that better or worse than being fit but really ugly? Not in terms of life expectancy, but in terms of society?

I mean, you know how I feel. I put tons more weight (pun not intended) on the body in terms of respect, and a bit more in terms of attraction. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder, but I would hope any reasonable person in society would at least put more respect and value on a fit body than a face. I don’t know how you couldn’t

Us valuing a symmetrical attractive face so highly is a useless evolutionary hangover. I hate that it holds sway with me

[Ciderpress]

Originally Posted by NopeNopeNopeNope [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I mean, you know how I feel. I put tons more weight (pun not intended) on the body in terms of respect, and a bit more in terms of attraction. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder, but I would hope any reasonable person in society would at least put more respect and value on a fit body than a face. I don’t know how you couldn’t

Us valuing a symmetrical attractive face so highly is a useless evolutionary hangover. I hate that it holds sway with me

Totally agree, getting\being\staying fit takes real discipline, especially as we age. It's just a shame in that fat chick's case, cause if she were a healthy weight she'd be quite the dish (heh, dish, pun not intended but fuck it I'm leaving it in).

[kjs86z2]

Originally Posted by Ciderpress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So here's the conundrum: She's actually pretty, but insanely fat. Is that better or worse than being fit but really ugly? Not in terms of life expectancy, but in terms of society?

Can't control your facial features but you sure as shit can control your weight.

Fat girls are extremely unattractive. I'll take a fit butterface anyday. At least she'll keep up with you hiking / skiing / etc.

[Ciderpress]

Originally Posted by kjs86z2 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Can't control your facial features but you sure as shit can control your weight.

Fat girls are extremely unattractive. I'll take a fit butterface anyday. At least she'll keep up with you hiking / skiing / etc.

Yeah I tend to fall into that camp too, even ugly chicks can usually look decent with makeup, but there's nothing you can do to hide dem rolls.

An interesting experiment would be to take a picture of a hot, in shape chick, and then use AI or something to keep adding 1 pound to her, and see where the threshold is where she transitions from hot to gross. Cause I will say I don't like overly skinny chicks either, where you can see ribs and stuff. I don't wanna think about your haunted-ass skeleton while we're getting busy.

[OriginalContentGuy]

Originally Posted by Ciderpress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Totally agree, getting\being\staying fit takes real discipline, especially as we age. It's just a shame in that fat chick's case, cause if she were a healthy weight she'd be quite the dish (heh, dish, pun not intended but fuck it I'm leaving it in).

Abuse happens and is correlated with Obesity. If you didn't know now you know.
https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/ful.../pn.42.15.0023

Originally Posted by kjs86z2 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Can't control your facial features but you sure as shit can control your weight.

Fat girls are extremely unattractive.

Beauty is common. Either you are born with it or you pay for it. What's rare is a great outlook, a great personality and none of us know someone's inner world at a glance. Humans are hardwired for love and connection. If we don't have that we hurt. And I think to cast such a wide net is unfair and in the context of survivors of abuse maybe precisely the point just to be left alone. Can you imagine how this manifests when both desires are of vital importance to someone simultaneously?

Everyone does the best they can. But I'm not Captain save-a-ho™ and I don't advise that in others.

[Ciderpress]

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Abuse happens and is correlated with Obesity. If you didn't know now you know.
https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/ful.../pn.42.15.0023

I have no doubt that's true. But way more people get fat from donuts than coping with abuse. Both things can be true.

Abuse is also correlated with anorexia, so it's not exactly a strong indicator. You can file both under "eating disorders", but jimbo and his wife tammy-ray in the trailer park are usually just fat from chugging mountain dew and ring dings.