Serious question about Love, Sex, Romance & Relationships, adults only

[dredge]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

[Hailto]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

If you think she doesn't show enough raw sexual interest now. Wait until you're like 50 years old, you're going to be one of those guys going to gay glory holes to get your nut. Abandon ship imo, note my post earlier though, you have to find a good balance here, either extreme is bad.

[Ahldagor]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

There's no hiccup. Have you guys hit the 3 year mark?

[dredge]

Believe me there are more important things then me having to be the one setting the mood bro, I'm not perfect. You don't throw the baby out with the bath water. She's awesome and open to lots of ideas if I even choose to go there, like bringing home other woman to join us and stuff. I'm just not in any hurry if at all, done that with the ex and she got crazy emotional after and I ended up in the dog house

[Ahldagor]

No, no babies. Serious about that three year mark thing. Most relationships will never last longer than that due to some weird neurological thing our brains do when choosing partners, baby in the scene or not. That's when the real work starts, and it gets way harder. All in all it sounds like you want some reciprocity in the relationship. Don't freak out over sex cause it's sex, and don't forget that porn is fictional. Also, any ritual for you or her in the foreplay? If so, then change. Add some beads or weed, weed and beads always helps. As for the emotional ex after the three way, she wasn't ready for that and wasn't honest with you about it, so I hope you made that clear to her because you are not responsible for her emotions if she's saying, "yes," to a threesome. Saw similar situation happen between two friends and some bar skank one morning cause the skank was cool but my friend wasn't, so she ran out the front door of the house we were partying at all cryin and shit with everyone in unison saying if you're not ready you're not ready. Funny shit to see just after sunrise and shot number 20 was just done....ahh, the Jager days.

[Issues]

Originally Posted by Recycled Children [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Time to be a man. I quite literally have never set the mood with my girlfriend of 5 years. My sexual mantra has been either flat out ask her if we can have sex or walk up to her and shove my hand down the front of her pants. Odds are about 50/50 that it will happen right at that second, most of the time she will want to shower beforehand.

I refuse to put any amount of real effort into a woman because let's be honest they're all subhuman and you can always buy sex.

Good stuff, little sexist but yeah..even if you have a serious relationship with a woman, a man worth a shit usually pays for normal day things...you indirectly pay to have sex with this woman.

@OP if you are always having to set the mood for sex, its like you're trying too hard dude, that turns a girl off. Heterosexual females are turned on by a man because of his masculinity. Man up, make your move on her whenever u want some, if she resists then try another time, if she keeps resisting day in and day out, she aint into u. Move on to the next fish in teh sea.

I've been with woman that are tight wads with their pussy and some that have even a higher libido than most males...its hard to find that perfect mixture but if you get along most of the time OUT of the bed room, that's most important imo.

But ultimately the lucky guys find woman they like out hangin out with and also never say no when they get horny...rare...but hey. some dudes get lucky. I'm in one of those lucky relationships right now..she aint no dime, shes cute tho, can't have everything.

[Misto]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Believe me there are more important things then me having to be the one setting the mood bro, I'm not perfect. You don't throw the baby out with the bath water. She's awesome and open to lots of ideas if I even choose to go there, like bringing home other woman to join us and stuff. I'm just not in any hurry if at all, done that with the ex and she got crazy emotional after and I ended up in the dog house

Sounds like you're a big giant pussy that doesn't know how good he has it then.

Oh no. I'm complacent with things and have a good life. Wahh

[Arclyte]

Thus spake Recycled Children

[Barkingturtle]

She might not be very comfortable with her own body and constant poop smell, either. Being fat means you carry around an extra forty to fifty pounds of impacted feces in your colon at all times, though--and that's just gonna stink. Maybe I'd recommend a couples' aerobics camp or that stuff morticians rub under their nostrils so they can't smell the corpse they're about to explore/

[dredge]

You and purist are just showing your lack of maturity. your both probably virgins waiting for someone to replace your mother's role in your life. Grow up and move out of your parent's house. Quit being angry, gay and resentful.