Can’t forgive my wife, missed green launch.

[Asteria]

Originally Posted by Topgunben [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Dont come to elf sim forum for marriage advice. With that said, let me give you some advice:

Women arent meant to be the boss. No matter how much they think they need to be the boss, they will always end up feeling less secure if they get to tell you what to do. Mothers tell their boys what to do, but one sign of a boy growing up to be a man is when he stops doing everything his mom tells him to do and goes out on his own and does his own thing. That doesnt mean you shouldnt listen or take their advice, but always remember that you are the boss, not her.

That doesnt mean your wife isnt right about some things. Maybe you have got to change some behaviors to placate her (you may never be able to fully satisfy her). BTW, nearly all women are crazy and neurotic. I seemed to have lucked out in the sense that my wife is about as easy going and understanding as any, but both of my sisters and mom are pure batshit crazy.

Sex is more important than you could imagine in marriage. It's the canary in the coal mine so-to-speak. If you are looking at porn you should stop. If she doesnt want to have sex, thats a huge problem that needs to be addressed immediately. If she has gained 2x her bodyweight since you were married, that is a major issue and she needs to lose the weight. If you would rather spend time on P99 then rolling around naked with her, you need to ask yourself why.

If you have kids, strongly consider not getting a divorce. Your life can turn into a living hell very quickly.

This is really solid advice. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] However i think more and more western men are getting to be too neurotic too which can also be a big problem, or maybe it already is? Is it a side effect of technology making all our lives easier and requiring less hard work and exercise for basic survival and recreation?

[Jimjam]

My cousin passed away last year and his divorced wife gave one of the speeches at his funeral.

You can never truly divorce a woman who is mother to children with whom you have a paternal relationship.

[Kief]

If you love someone be there for them. No matter what.

[Croco]

Originally Posted by Kief [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

If you love someone be there for them. No matter what.

this is terrible advice, if the person is not willing to put in the work in a relationship and meet you halfway and be a partnership they are not worthy of your love

[Tankwipe]

Originally Posted by Croco [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

this is terrible advice, if the person is not willing to put in the work in a relationship and meet you halfway and be a partnership they are not worthy of your love

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[Videri]

She sounds like she's worth the sacrifice of Green launch, tbh. It was cool, but also annoying in that every camp was taken and every group was full 24/7. And while it was very classic in some regards, it was super unclassic in other ways. Plus, with Kunark coming out soon, now is a fine time to play some P99. And like I said, there will be more fresh P99 servers in the future.

Maybe next time something like this happens, you can make an agreement with wifey.

[Jibartik]

heh pretty much all wives are worth the sacrafice of green launch [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[kaev]

Originally Posted by Jibartik [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

heh pretty much all wives are worth the sacrafice of green launch [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Every once in a while you surprise me Jib. Well played.

[Jibartik]

Originally Posted by kaev [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Every once in a while you surprise me Jib. Well played.

I may seem like I'm a 1 track mind everquest addict but that's just a hobby lol

[Jibartik]

What if this post is reconjoe feeling bad he deleted his characters and wanted sympathy but knew he wouldn't get any unless he wrote all this backstory. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]