Unfriendliness

[Cecily]

Originally Posted by Swish [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I think the new LFG meta is to run around in circles around the mob you're killing, maybe turn on auto attack and help people, with your tag on obviously.

Take it to the next level if you're a LFG monk, keep feigning death in front of them.

People do that in CoM all the time.

Just whatever you do.. don't say ANYTHING

[Dirtnap]

My experience is a lot like the OP's. I will walk up to a group, ask if they need whatever I am currently on and get ignored. Hang out for a bit and keep talking to myself while adding some DPS to their mobs or doing buffs/heals. Get ignored for over an hour and log off.

I am being kind and helpful, being patient on either a group invite or a spot to open up if they are full.

[lecompte]

Originally Posted by bomaroast [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I had the LFG tag up and was ooc'ing that I was lfg. To do more than that would be pestering I think. Shall I just beg? It's a freaking MMO.. we're supposed to be in this thing together

Hehe, if I'm LFG on a level 38 I'll /who all cleric 34-42 and send a tell to everyone of them in an exp zone and ask them if they need a level 38 _________. If they say no, I ask that they keep me in mind.

[Babizul]

Originally Posted by Swish [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I think the new LFG meta is to run around in circles around the mob you're killing, maybe turn on auto attack and help people, with your tag on obviously.

Take it to the next level if you're a LFG monk, keep feigning death in front of them.

People do that in CoM all the time.

It's like an eq mating ritual for lfg.

[Babizul]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Just whatever you do.. don't say ANYTHING

Yeah I feel like the real problem is people are afraid to come up to a group and get an answer out of them without being pussies about it.

[rollin5k]

Usually if you hang out and chat with group and talk them onto letting you job they will most the time. Just don't be afraid of rejection. And usually when that's the case you're knowingly going to bring them less xp if they already have an established group hehe

[Lamil]

I've found that using /ooc lfg works less than going to camps and asking people if they have room for you. Most people here seem to fear rejecting you and invite you but will ignore you /ooc'ing.

Lesson.... Be proactive looking for group

[skipdog]

Wow people, if you want to know if there is room for you, just ASK THEM.

This 'I'm gonna stand around a group with my LFG tag on, do some emotes and then call them rude when they don't invite me to group or chat back with me' thing is fucking pathetic.

Sorry, most of us don't play this game to casually chat with others. I'm sure most people will answer a question if asked.

[Ofaelol]

The other day, I stood around the EC tunnel /wave 'ing to all of the traders. Not a single one gave me a Lamentation. Rude.

[webrunner5]

Maybe you are playing a class no one wants. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] Ranger comes to mind.