what most of you will not understand

[Abacab "The REAL truth"]

Originally Posted by deathgirl [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

abacab, you're sounding like lydia lunch. Not all women are whores, and not all men are rapists 8] I don't go clubbing because it's shallow/stupid/boorish/musically appauling etcetc. I guess everyone just wants to be desired, and if everyone's ass shaking, a woman asking for a waltz isn't going to have a hope in hell of tearing a man's gaze from the ass grinding his junk.
Tbh, I think it's more likely that women are this way as a result of man's objectification. Don't most men think about sex most of the time? I see men checking out women everysinglefuckingmomentoftheday, especially when the woman is oblivious to it. Most women feel an innate pressure to compete to feel secure, probs because most males are just hypersexual and always drawn in by the allure of something new, amirite?

You're saying women don't check men or other women out? You're also saying that men are "hypersexual" meaning men are abnormal while the female sex-drive is more in-line with moderation?

Did you know the highest infidelity rates come from women? Did you know most sex shops cater to women over men? Did you know statistically speaking women and men aren't that far apart on sexual frequency?

Most men don't think about sex all the time, if the opportunity arises yeah men will try to get their nut off but it's hardly the all-consuming thought that you are portraying it as. In fact men are mostly selfish with sex, they'll bust a nut and roll over to play video games, women on the other hand want longer build-up and prefer something a bit more enduring than a "minute-quit it" so in my opinion women are far more sexually active when they are in the mood for it.

It's not mens fault for the objectification of women, that has been brought on for the gender through a long history of using sex to sell. Every major historical figure that was female (Cleopatra, Queen Victoria, Catherine the Great) used sex or the ability to procure children as a staple in manipulating men into war and positioning themselves for comfort, luxury and power... and while me would take women as "spoils" in those olden days men didn't use their dicks to conquer the world, they used ultra-violence same cannot be said about women.

Also, women only feel the need and pressure to compete because they are shallow in those instances. If you got to grind your ass on my dick, or essentially give up the pussy on the first date to leave an impression that you're a competitor in the game of relationships and security, then like I said you are shallow and lack any interesting qualities about yourself, thus trying to sleep and breed your way into comfort and security.

[deathgirl]

Originally Posted by Abacab "The REAL truth" [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

You're saying women don't check men or other women out? You're also saying that men are "hypersexual" meaning men are abnormal while the female sex-drive is more in-line with moderation?

Did you know the highest infidelity rates come from women? Did you know most sex shops cater to women over men? Did you know statistically speaking women and men aren't that far apart on sexual frequency?

Most men don't think about sex all the time, if the opportunity arises yeah men will try to get their nut off but it's hardly the all-consuming thought that you are portraying it as. In fact men are mostly selfish with sex, they'll bust a nut and roll over to play video games, women on the other hand want longer build-up and prefer something a bit more enduring than a "minute-quit it" so in my opinion women are far more sexually active when they are in the mood for it.

It's not mens fault for the objectification of women, that has been brought on for the gender through a long history of using sex to sell. Every major historical figure that was female (Cleopatra, Queen Victoria, Catherine the Great) used sex or the ability to procure children as a staple in manipulating men into war and positioning themselves for comfort, luxury and power... and while me would take women as "spoils" in those olden days men didn't use their dicks to conquer the world, they used ultra-violence same cannot be said about women.

Also, women only feel the need and pressure to compete because they are shallow in those instances. If you got to grind your ass on my dick, or essentially give up the pussy on the first date to leave an impression that you're a competitor in the game of relationships and security, then like I said you are shallow and lack any interesting qualities about yourself, thus trying to sleep and breed your way into comfort and security.

lmfao. It seems you know more about sex shops than me. And are you srsly trying to tell me that the whole reason the internet was made- porn- is annnnywhere near as catered to women as it is to men? Nope, 90% of it is tits and vaginas all round. I don't mean women are more in-line with moderation, only that men seem to be hyper in comparison to us. generalizations abound.

"It's not mens fault for the objectification of women, that has been brought on for the gender through a long history of using sex to sell."

Supply and demand, my dear abacab. You can't say the reason there's a market is because there was once a market. lmao.
I absolutely agree with your last sentence though.

[Leokaiser]

In regards to objectification, men like seeing women looking sexually attractive, ergo, women dress and behave in a 'provocative' manner to increase their chances in mate selection. This is a mutually beneficial arrangement; men get eye candy, women get more potential partners. Potential is the key word there though - just because a woman looks hot, doesn't mean she wants fucked by all and sundry.

In a civilized society, if a man can't control his urges due to what a woman is wearing, it's not the woman who has the problem.

[Abacab "The REAL truth"]

Originally Posted by Leokaiser [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

In regards to objectification, men like seeing women looking sexually attractive, ergo, women dress and behave in a 'provocative' manner to increase their chances in mate selection. This is a mutually beneficial arrangement; men get eye candy, women get more potential partners. Potential is the key word there though - just because a woman looks hot, doesn't mean she wants fucked by all and sundry.

In a civilized society, if a man can't control his urges due to what a woman is wearing, it's not the woman who has the problem.

The golden rule: No fatties

[Lagaidh]

I had a childhood chocked full of every kind of abuse you can think of except sexual... I think this woman is full of herself and nothing else.

You can keep being mad about the past or afraid of the future, but all that does is paralyze. Been there, done that... but I grew up. Late. But I did grow up. What I see in those videos is an angry person yet to fully grow up.

/pity

[Harrison]

Get over it. You're not getting any, from me, or anyone for that matter.

[Alawen Everywhere]

Wow. I am seriously amazed by this thread.

The level of blame the victim here is incredible. I can't tell if Abacab and Harrison are intentionally trolling or think they're making some hilarious joke out of rape. Abacab has thrown out a bunch of bullshit "facts" backed up by no evidence except his own imagination.

News flash, boys: it doesn't matter if you think you're being funny. Stating shit like this makes you a misogynist. Get some professional counseling and work out your issues with mommy.

An 11-year-old girl was recently gang-raped by 18 men between 15 and 25 in a small town in Texas. Some reactions from the community were that the commotion was tearing the town apart and that those poor boys will have to live with this all of their lives. The girl? Apparently she dressed too provocatively and frequented the wrong part of town and so she was asking for it.

Wake up. The basic function of society is to protect women and children. We can do a much better job of that and we should.

[Abacab "The REAL truth"]

Originally Posted by Alawen Everywhere [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Wow. I am seriously amazed by this thread.

The level of blame the victim here is incredible. I can't tell if Abacab and Harrison are intentionally trolling or think they're making some hilarious joke out of rape. Abacab has thrown out a bunch of bullshit "facts" backed up by no evidence except his own imagination.

News flash, boys: it doesn't matter if you think you're being funny. Stating shit like this makes you a misogynist. Get some professional counseling and work out your issues with mommy.

An 11-year-old girl was recently gang-raped by 18 men between 15 and 25 in a small town in Texas. Some reactions from the community were that the commotion was tearing the town apart and that those poor boys will have to live with this all of their lives. The girl? Apparently she dressed too provocatively and frequented the wrong part of town and so she was asking for it.

Wake up. The basic function of society is to protect women and children. We can do a much better job of that and we should.

This thread stopped being about rape on page 3...

[Abacab "The REAL truth"]

Originally Posted by Alawen Everywhere [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

The basic function of society is to protect women and children.

No one that studies society seriously on a philosophical level will agree with you on that claim. You're deluded to think entire civilizations exist on the basic notion of "women and children first" when societies exist on for a cultural normative...

You know common interests, behaviors, views, and morals.

[Abacab "The REAL truth"]

All of my responses have been aimed at objectifying to counter the resonating opinion that "there are rapists surrounding us" which I've been stating that this thread isn't so much about rape the act, but rape in theory which several female members of the board are blaming on men being "hypersexual" and prone to the act.

Which is absolute horseshit and me pointing out that women are no less sexualized than men as evident by the several dozen videos I posted of drunk college sluts pounding the goose and frantically groping at each other