Who here has a Fetlife?

[Weekapaug]

Did you read that online somewhere?

In the real world there is lots of crossover depending on the individual. And, yes, some fetishists use the term "vanilla." I'm one of them.

[abacab-winner]

Originally Posted by Weekapaug [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Did you read that online somewhere?

In the real world there is lots of crossover depending on the individual. And, yes, some fetishists use the term "vanilla." I'm one of them.

Such a silly blanket term, only thing I'm trying to tell you is it's not the norm it's the exception and the exception is more rampant in the BDSM community than say the furry community, or the age-play community etc.

[Weekapaug]

All those neatly defined roles and categories you read about on the internet.

I say again. Vanillas are so funny.

[abacab-winner]

Originally Posted by Weekapaug [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

All those neatly defined roles and categories you read about on the internet.

I say again. Vanillas are so funny.

I like to define and categorize, it's something that makes it easier for me to understand things; some pals call it autism.

[Gaffin Deeppockets]

this thread went from interesting to 2 ppl arguing

[abacab-winner]

Originally Posted by Gaffin Deeppockets [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

this thread went from interesting to 2 ppl arguing

Wekapaug just mad because I see nothing but black and white, and not acknowledging his multiple shades of gray.

[Weekapaug]

Originally Posted by abacab-winner [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Wekapaug just mad because I see nothing but black and white, and not acknowledging his multiple shades of gray.

Not mad at all, and this isn't an argument, but that's how I know you are clueless.

If you truly are autistic, I meant no offense. It's just that you purport to speak with authority about a subject that, clearly, you have zero experience with besides having read something on the internet.

There is zero black and white in any of this. The only absolutes are standards of conduct between participants, honoring limits, safewords, etc. Beyond that it truly varies greatly from one individual to another and from relationship to relationship. Sorry.

And "vanilla" isn't meant to be an offensive term, and it shoudln't be taken as an insult. It just means "not one of us," basicly.

[Tiggles]

Originally Posted by abacab-winner [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Wekapaug just mad because I see nothing but black and white, and not acknowledging his fifty shades of gray.

see what I did? I made a pun about that fetish book girls read.

I'm contributing to this thread.

[billw134]

Abacab likes a good sized chocolate!

[Weekapaug]

I was wondering how long it would take, Tiggles. lol