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[Cecily]

Originally Posted by skarlorn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

really not upset friend. i feel for you and hope you don't kill yourself or damage others. humans are male or female. then, there are the mentally ill. i can understand people who transition from one gender to another but won't, druing my lifetime, give space to those who believe there is something beyond biological structure! ty!

My first and last trip to a trans support group at my college almost got me lynched when I mansplained why the gender binary was a good thing to the half dozen FTM or genderqueer girls there.

[Nexii]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

My first and last trip to a trans support group at my college almost got me lynched when I mansplained why the gender binary was a good thing to the half dozen FTM or genderqueer girls there.

You know, I had similar vibes going to support. Like I was the only real MTF there or something.....idk how to put it. Or at least the only centrist

[clevergirl]

Cecily is also an expert. Plz listen to her, she's better at communicating.

[skarlorn]

I'm experimenting with limiting my openindededness. You have to respect this just as I have to respect gender binary transgender people (but believe non binary gender assignment is mental illness.) Thanks!

Ps- the structure of brain for a mentally ill person is also different

[clevergirl]

Originally Posted by skarlorn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm experimenting with limiting my openindededness. You have to respect this just as I have to respect gender binary transgender people. Thanks!

I hope that works out for you, good luck!

[Cecily]

Originally Posted by skarlorn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm experimenting with limiting my openindededness. You have to respect this just as I have to respect gender binary transgender people (but believe non binary gender assignment is mental illness.) Thanks!

Ps- the structure of brain for a mentally ill person is also different

Yeah, I actually share that opinion. However, you should consider (or don't) the concept of liminality:

"In anthropology, liminality (from the Latin word līmen, meaning "a threshold") is the quality of ambiguity or disorientation that occurs in the middle stage of rites, when participants no longer hold their preritual status but have not yet begun the transition to the status they will hold when the rite is complete."

Non-binary gender identification is quick way to consolidate your ego when you're literally in the middle. I don't like it, but it may serve as an apt description seeing as I'm going to be in the depths of liminal weirdness pretty soon myself. As much as I'd like to, I can't get to point B from A immediately.

[clevergirl]

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Originally Posted by skarlorn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm experimenting with limiting my openindededness. You have to respect this just as I have to respect gender binary transgender people. Thanks!

I hope that works out for you, good luck!

I would go so far as to say that binary mode works for you, it's totally normal. It's not important to overthink it. You may only run into rough edges around a few "way out there folks" Best not to be entirely upset when these issues and disagreements happens. Likely, most of the time you will never know, and would not ever know unless people make an issue out of it. It takes two people to have a fight, so please don't lay it all on trans-stuff. I am sick and tired of being the target and blamed for all the problems people can't cope with on their own and being used as a political tool. I hope you can appreciate that, but if you don't care, and won't, I have nothing more to really add.

TLDR: I'd personally prefer it if this all just went back down under the radar to personal levels of involvement among enlightened beings in the big scheme of things, and stopped being about cultural warfare and being the purview of politics and scare mongering. On BOTH sides.

The above peoples experiences is similar to my own. There are a lot of extremos out there. They just do what they do. TLDR: Stereotypes are bad.

[LulzSect©]

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[Cecily]

Let's discuss this. Why am I crazy? Why should I be locked up? What methods of rehabilitation would you suggest?

[LulzSect©]

Look xude, normal is crazy. Fuck what some fat fuck forever alone on the internet thinks shit