You ALWAYS give atleast a 30mins heads up before leaving an exp group

[drktmplr12]

Originally Posted by Halius [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Granted I am only level 18 but even now about 95% of the time I don't search for groups. With 3 kids, the majority of the time I am playing in between naps and when everyone is asleep so I don't want to be THAT guy when I have to leave suddenly.

you dont have to worry about being 'that guy'. you just don't want to be OP. if people want to be pissy over this, then who cares if they won't invite you to their group?

honestly, many times ive grouped up with people and had to go suddenly for whatever reason. 99% of people were understanding and respectful. The 1% can continue to fuck themselves in their basement.

[Ugrask]

This isn't a bunch of kids and thousands of people per server like 15 years ago with lists for camps. We all have shit going on and at 2am, he wasn't going to find a replacement anyway.

OP Needs a life. Plus I have never seen this issue, I usually get the people who join up, clear to a camp then say they gotta go soon(like Kaesora)

[Robben]

I'm surprised at how many people took offense to the OP.


If I had crying children to tend to, the last thing I would be doing is playing an EverQuest emulator. I would be busy raising my children...


It's understandable that sometimes people have to log off immediately, but try to at least notify your group before you depart.


Saying he has "no life" because he expects the tank to give a heads up [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[Orruar]

Who needs a tank for CoM? Did you have a ranger, a monk, a bard, a person with snare, or a person with root? Sounds like all you really did was lose one xp sponge. Congrats.

[drktmplr12]

Originally Posted by Orruar [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Who needs a tank for CoM? Did you have a ranger, a monk, a bard, a person with snare, or a person with root? Sounds like all you really did was lose one xp sponge. Congrats.

agree with xp sponges. i have had far better experiences with 3 to 4 person groups in CoM.

most players seem to think that you need a tank for a group. I disagree...you really don't. almost everyone has abilities to supplement a tank...especially in CoM where NOTHING casts spells. look at post #3 by Daldaen, which is a perfect example of someone using more than one spell bar depending on what the group needs.. instead of sitting there being an xp sponge.

[drktmplr12]

Originally Posted by Robben [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

If I had crying children to tend to, the last thing I would be doing is playing an EverQuest emulator. I would be busy raising my children...

which reinforces that OP is being unreasonable. whether he is playing an elf simulator or building a pergola in the garage is irrelevant.

[Ugrask]

Originally Posted by Robben [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm surprised at how many people took offense to the OP.


If I had crying children to tend to, the last thing I would be doing is playing an EverQuest emulator. I would be busy raising my children...


It's understandable that sometimes people have to log off immediately, but try to at least notify your group before you depart.


Saying he has "no life" because he expects the tank to give a heads up [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Oh so if you have a child you're never allowed to do anything else? Are you some kind of fucking retard?

The main point that people used with a child is it was a sleep and woke up crying...aka needing tending.

[Kekephee]

Originally Posted by Ugrask [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Oh so if you have a child you're never allowed to do anything else? Are you some kind of fucking retard?

The main point that people used with a child is it was a sleep and woke up crying...aka needing tending.

To be fair, our society really has not accepted that when you have a kid your life is fucking over and it has caused a lot of problems, but computer games are one area where people don't even realize they're being affected. Everybody focuses on people bringing kids into movie theaters and restaurants, but LEAVING EXP GROUPS is one that hits much closer to home for me due to I never leave the house to go to movie theaters and restaurants

[Halius]

I'm sensing some sarcasm brewing here.

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[myriverse]

Originally Posted by Robben [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm surprised at how many people took offense to the OP.

If I had crying children to tend to, the last thing I would be doing is playing an EverQuest emulator. I would be busy raising my children...

Don't believe the propaganda. Parenting is not really a 24/7 kind of thing, unless your kid has a serious illness or something.