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Originally Posted by Duik
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Lmao unsung. Preconceived ideas much? I live with a woman who has never used makeup ever. Wore a dress just the once to her dads 2nd wedding. Used to have a blonde mohawk hairdo, naturally smaller boobs and was seen as either male or lesbian.
We both just lolocaust at other peoples idea of "what a woman should look like" we made 2 wonderful babies, so one of us is defo a woman. And it matters not who others think the woman is to be honest.
Just see a person not a gender and the rest takes care of itself.
People see me as effeminate. To those there is only one good answer. And ive had one great interaction with the following...
Put your wife in my bed for one night and she can tell you in the morning. The screaming was answered with well you called me a girl buddy boy so go fuck yourself. I kill me.
It's LePretty simples.
Se the Human. Not the man or the woman.
Requires suspending ones disbelief that we can just see the being and not the objectification of what one expects to see.
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Ah but this creates a conundrum
If there is nothing that is specifically “womanly” then why change anything at all with not just appearance but anything, including behaviors
Why not just say one is a woman, while still having a big beard, wearing men’s clothes, and acting like a man doing man stuff. Basically change nothing
The reason things are changed is that these people DO feel there are certain looks and behaviors that are feminine and are chasing those. Wouldn’t you agree?
07-23-2023, 11:28 AM
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