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I could see why that ended the marriage. Unless you're dead honest with your fiancee, you absolutely shouldn't be getting married. Gender identity issues don't pop up over night, it's usually an ongoing struggle from ages 4-5 on. Honesty about that type of stuff could definitely kill a relationship, but it's something the other person deserves to know. If someone is open minded enough to accept it, that would only end up making the relationship stronger. But pretending to be normal is usually easier... until it isn't.
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I can just say that in my vast hyperbolic experience dealing with the fairer sex, I don't see how many women would be accepting of their male partner changing identities overnight.
However, I do have an ongoing theory that all women are bisexual which may explain this phenomenon. I can say that if I was with a woman who suddenly wanted to switch into a man, it'd be game over. We might be able to stay really good friends but an ongoing intimate relationship is completely out of the question. | ||
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I hate to sound shallow but I am only a man but it's really more than just the physical aspect as well. | |||
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Also if s/he became a male and was still attracted to me, wouldn't that make her gay/bi? I don't really care about what others like to do but as for my own desire and orientation it wouldn't be comfortable to me.
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It's like some sad 3-year-long midlife crisis that hasn't lost any momentum.
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Looking back, you seem to have had yourself all whipped up in this thread long before I posted anything. From what I can tell, what really pissed you off is that I derailed your attempt to establish some pseudo-facts about sex and gender. You want to shred my argument, but lacking anything substantial, you resort to slurs and name calling. When you call me homosexual or a vagina, it doesn't take anything away from me. It just makes you look ignorant. I speak from a position of assuming that most of the people on this board played on live, no longer live with their parents, have some life experience, are in their 30s or 40s. I assume that most finished high school and a significant number have some college, a certificate or a degree. In short, I assume you are adults and I attempt to address you as such. Sure, there are some kids, but this isn't a message game for a newly released game. They're a small part of this population. I see no justification to ever call anyone a ******, a faggot, a retard, a cunt, or any other attempt at a hurtful slur. That isn't maturity; it's decency. If you didn't learn that when you were 5 or 10, now is a great time for it. It's really your choice. If you want to be treated with respect, act like it. If not, expect to be grouped with the fools. If you don't like what I post, put me on ignore. | |||
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