Dating thread

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Life is like living inside a heroin store and staying sober.

[Reiwa]

Thai police arrest woman who allegedly seduced and blackmailed Buddhist monks

Police in Thailand arrested a woman Tuesday who allegedly enticed a string of Buddhist monks into sexual relationships and then pressured them into making large payments to cover up their intimacy.

Scandals involving monks surface a few times a year in Thailand but usually don’t involve senior members of the clergy.

[NopeNopeNopeNope]

The thing I would always go back and forth on with the argumentative blackpilled bros on Reddit was: Too many guys think they have no chance with women because they are porn brained and try to date way the fuck out of their league

If you want women to give you a shot with little or no physical attraction, why don’t you fucking try it? Ask a girl out that you have no physical attraction to. And I mean do this AFTER doing a shitload of work on yourself. Date an ugly girl

“Absolutely not you moron, wow waste my time and hers??”

Me: waste what? 45 fuckin minutes? Waste the cost of 2 cups of coffee? Who gives a fuck, it’s a first date. It’s experience. It’s socialization practice. It’s hearing someone else’s story. You are guaranteed to learn something

And maybe, just maybe, she might become more attractive as you talk for a multitude of reasons. But again, you have to have made yourself desirable enough to land a first date BEFORE you try this

[Reiwa]

Originally Posted by NopeNopeNopeNope [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

The thing I would always go back and forth on with the argumentative blackpilled bros on Reddit was: Too many guys think they have no chance with women because they are porn brained and try to date way the fuck out of their league

If you want women to give you a shot with little or no physical attraction, why don’t you fucking try it? Ask a girl out that you have no physical attraction to. And I mean do this AFTER doing a shitload of work on yourself. Date an ugly girl

“Absolutely not you moron, wow waste my time and hers??”

Me: waste what? 45 fuckin minutes? Waste the cost of 2 cups of coffee? Who gives a fuck, it’s a first date. It’s experience. It’s socialization practice. It’s hearing someone else’s story. You are guaranteed to learn something

And maybe, just maybe, she might become more attractive as you talk for a multitude of reasons. But again, you have to have made yourself desirable enough to land a first date BEFORE you try this

Porn-braining is one of those accusations that shuts down any intelligent conversation in the favor of the one who invokes it.

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Originally Posted by Reiwa [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Porn-braining is one of those accusations that shuts down any intelligent conversation in the favor of the one who invokes it.

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Porn brained is a real phenomenon where someone has watched so many porn models and ridiculously beautiful girls for sexual fulfillment that they see average girls as ugly

I can retype it if you need further shutting down. Because it’s a real thing that exists

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Oh and if someone really doesn’t want to spend money, a fucking banger first date idea is just to meet at a park and walk around it. Or anywhere scenic. Muuuuuch less pressure than sitting 2 feet away facing each other like a job interview. You can stare at the ground most of the way, just make sure to make solid eye contact and break touch barrier by touching her arm, spinning her to face you, or whatever to get her attention, and then ask a logistics question. “Do you want to continue going this way? Do you want to check out the pond? How many laps would you want to do?”

That way it’s easier for someone with anxiety but you can’t ignore eye contact 100% of the time looking straight and talking. Or look her way and make eye contact when you ask a question. But otherwise facing away is a huge pressure relief

And it’s fuuuuckin free

[Reiwa]

Originally Posted by NopeNopeNopeNope [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Oh and if someone really doesn’t want to spend money, a fucking banger first date idea is just to meet at a park and walk around it. Or anywhere scenic. Muuuuuch less pressure than sitting 2 feet away facing each other like a job interview. You can stare at the ground most of the way, just make sure to make solid eye contact and break touch barrier by touching her arm, spinning her to face you, or whatever to get her attention, and then ask a logistics question. “Do you want to continue going this way? Do you want to check out the pond? How many laps would you want to do?”

That way it’s easier for someone with anxiety but you can’t ignore eye contact 100% of the time looking straight and talking. Or look her way and make eye contact when you ask a question. But otherwise facing away is a huge pressure relief

And it’s fuuuuckin free

Eh, you're just repeating your favorite Youtubers now so I'm gonna drop it.

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Originally Posted by Reiwa [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Eh, you're just repeating your favorite Youtubers now so I'm gonna drop it.

That’s entirely experienced based, as someone who’s done many many park walk dates

I never listened to date advice tbh, I learned by experience, getting rejected a shitload along the way like everyone else but the top 10%

You can say then why should someone follow your advice? Probably in a more clever way though knowing you

And that’s fine, ignore me and get out there in the trenches and learn by experience. Either way is all good

[Reiwa]

Originally Posted by NopeNopeNopeNope [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

That’s entirely experienced based, as someone who’s done many many park walk dates

I never listened to date advice tbh, I learned by experience, getting rejected a shitload along the way like everyone else but the top 10%

You can say then why should someone follow your advice? Probably in a more clever way though knowing you

And that’s fine, ignore me and get out there in the trenches and learn by experience. Either way is all good

You own a house and have no bottom bitch?

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Originally Posted by Reiwa [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

You own a house and have no bottom bitch?

Oh are we talking about arbitrary measures of success? Like being able to get more dates in a weekend than I have time for if I choose to?

Or recently having a series of fun short term romantic relationships and a few fwb along that process?

Or is married the metric, as we know getting married means a happy and fulfilling relationship with no problems. If I ask a fat drunk girl at the bar to elope with me to Vegas, should I include it like a merit badge on my scout vest?