imperiouskitten meltdown thread

[starkind]

If you want to get really fucking technical most transphobia is actually malephobia. And directed at males or men who lack "proper" masculinity. For being too feminine or attractive. If they where female tho they'd get an automatic free pass.

It's just because someone is male.

If you don't like them you just dont like, or find masculinity attractive.

Some of them you have no fucking idea tho and you're just afraid of some kind of imaginary masculine woman you couldn't ever spot anyway.

This is objective.

[Trexller]

Originally Posted by twerk_happy_faggot [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Ok ok, that's a nice interaction. But I want to ask you, trexller.

You say nobody here hates me, but the fact is you are the only 'phobe on here who can engage with me without getting totally spinout triggered and abandoning wit completely. Even Dave Chappelle can't make a trans joke without going totally unfunny preachermode. He's freakin' triggered.

So why do you assume everyone here is like you? You are actually a rare type.

I will submit to you that your bias is the reason. But let's hear it, I am interested. Also i won't edit any more than this lol

I am not a 'phobe. I hate everyone equally. thats not a joke. I never, ever assume a person is good natured, until they prove to me that they are not an asshole.

This provides clarity, and a voice of reason among the unreasonable. When i freak out, someone often has a voice of reason for me, and in my freak out state, thats the LAST thing that i want to hear, but its needed regardless.

You make alot of noise, and the squeaky wheel gets the grease. The internet is 99% populated with people who are itching for someone to shit on, and you make yourself an easy target. I am not going to address any sort of morality on either side, these are just the facts.

So i'll concede, maybe there are some genuine hate coming your way. But think about it a minute. We are all basically strangers, and some text name that you will never meet have mean things to say about your lifestyle choices? Your reaction to that says more about you then their comments say about them.

Dickhead trolls are a dime a dozen, and they all sound the same.

I still reserve the right to crack jokes about anything, at any time.

[Trexller]

Originally Posted by twerk_happy_faggot [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

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Yeah i play games with pronouns, i feel like the whole thing is some overblown nonsense. I honestly have female friends who i consider to be "bros", whom i often address as "hey man" (one is a bull dyke, and likes it, but also calls me pookie-boy, which i dont really like) I used to have a trans-man friend, who sold weed to me, but then moved out of state. Frankly, when addressing someone of some sort of alternative gender flavor, I most prefer to use, "Fellow American"

I, like most of you, grew up being conditioned to cringe at the sound of the N word. it rubs me the wrong way, it was used for like 600 years to oppress and dehumanize people. no dice.

The pronoun business is new, and you all have yet to figure out what you wanna settle down on, like cecily said, its evolving, and I am not gonna stay glued to lgbtq news so i know what pronouns are correct at a particular hour of a particular day, so everyone is dude, bro, man, guy, or referred to by name, or I just carefully avoid specifically addressing the individual with nouns, ie, "the person with the blue hair" etc.

Is it really that big a deal to call you bro? you'd fit into the "bro friend" category in my life, with the benefits of, "The Bro Code" which i take seriously.

shitposting and hateposting is par for the course on these forums, and you have to admit that you do single yourself out rather often. you make yourself noticed. I'm sorry not sorry, but thats gonna draw their ire in your direction. That doesn't make you a victim, not in this place.

We should all be able to talk about your lives, but i dont bring up shit like the random tinder pussy i ate for an hour then dumped a load into. nobody wants to hear that.

Nobody around here spams the N word, and if someone posts shit like "trannies R gay herp a derp", and nobody replies, then no discussion occurs. Everybody has a chance to redeem themselves, and everyone else. I'll die on that cross, if i have to.

Sometimes ive tried to interject myself in threads going, "uh can't you see whats all going on here?" Internet people don't want that, they just want to keep on spamming whatever brain vomit they can come up with. This is not a place for reason, you will find that among your friends and loved ones.

nothin left to pick apart here, so other than the 3 day meltdown, hows things going, My Fellow American?

TL;DR

You all don't have to get along, but you all HAVE TO read my signature.

[Trexller]

Originally Posted by twerk_happy_faggot [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

A whole lot of talk which doesn't explain why you explicitly and NOT in a friendly manner use the incorrect pronouns for people who are obviously women. Your transphobia lives inside there. Wherever you just went to fish, coming out with nonsequiturs about bull dykes. And your decency lies in the discomfort you feel in calling yourself phobic. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

It's been the same since like 1970. There is no update in my world in this regard. You know this, but say a bunch of dWhy do your complaints about completely different typeistraction stuff. Why? s of people necessitate that you distance yourself from me?

You don't want to be this way. I like it about you. Stop making excuses for doing things you know better than doing.

So anyway, now you know. I am a girl just like ... you already know.

ok Du, errr Dudette, with regard to bull dyke lady: she referred to herself as that, when she spoke it, she emphasized bull as in like she's the badass, BULL Dyke.

These are such dark and murky waters because everyone gets offended differently, so being autistic, the logical thing in my mind is stay the course, because someone is gonna be offended regardless of what I do. Walking a perfectly straight line still guarantees that at some point you will step on a crack.

I don't live in your world, nor could I hope to understand your experience. Someone born with a penis when the brain thinks it should have a vagina has gotta be weird to say the least (i know theres something offensive in there, i cant place it, but im sure you'll let me know)

Distancing... well i dont know you, prolly never will. neither here nor there, if i sound like im "distancing myself" thats your non-context bias, if you go looking for bad things, you're guaranteed to find them.

Like me, you're smart, Like me, you can beat the shit out of these posters when you give it half a try.

In my world, thats a Bro, an equal, and thats all you want.

[Disease]

Had to know people would make fun of you for dressing like a girl and calling yourself a sissy. Next time maybe don't bring your real life on to everquest forums.

[starkind]

I know plenty of "trans" people. Some of them are legitimately cringe. Do they deserve special protection tho?

It's like saying don't make fun of Patriam for being from Iran. And ya'll have done it. Even tho he's one of the least cringy Iranians I know.

It's honestly really bad enough that "transgender" is forever a killing word. As Mua'dib would say.

No one is rehabilitating it. That ship sailed in 2012-15. If not before then. I wouldn't know. Because I was mblake1981 in 2010.

[Penish]

I usually come to simulated elf forums to defend my personal life choices, stay cool and normal

[Trexller]

These folks don't have mainstream avenues to fit into and be known and validated, unlike us straight folks who just walk around town and are well met.

so they go to other places and try to find it, but more often than not, they build a giant flashing neon billboard right outside the bedroom windows of the people most likely to give them shit for whatever they are trying to advertise.

society will evolve, but it will not happen quickly.

I'll say it again for the 1000th time, if you have a problem with gays/trans or whatever, then thats highly indicative of your own self doubts and insecurities. This is psychology 101.

You will never, ever find someone who is 100% secure in their sexuality, going around dropping hate bombs on other orientations.

one example among many: That CEO of super-christian liberty university turned out to be a flaming homo

[Homesteaded]

So am I offending people of mixed sex when I refer to women as guys?

"Thanks guys"

[Penish]

science says boys are boys and girls are girls, im proboobly wrongdiddly