Welcome to classic EQ! Yes it can be tough, especially starting out. Typically I would suggest for an entirely new player starting in Greater Faydark or near East Commonlands would be the best (for those without scales and tails). I think <dial a port> the guild is pretty friendly about helping newbies port from place to place but you might want to let them know that you probably don't have much to tip beforehand because they are often busy.
Alternatively, if you can catch me on Spacepope I'd be happy to give you a ride wherever free of charge.
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