Time for me to head out, after this pull.

[BigHurb]

depend on others for happiness

disappoint

lesson?

[Byrjun]

Wait until your entire group has to camp out to log on their mains cause CT spawned.

[coki]

Originally Posted by Byrjun [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Wait until your entire group has to camp out to log on their mains cause CT spawned.

[shimonuh]

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[Ajkuhuun]

"Hey guys, I might have to go at any time if X circumstance arises."

This is what I always say when I join a group, which is rare. I can only play when my son is asleep, and he's had sleep troubles since he was tiny. So I know in my case personally, I may have to get up QUICKLY if he wakes up screaming in the next room. Even if you join a group with that understanding, folks tend to get peeved if the cleric has to random afk and the group dies because of it.

This is the reason I solo for the most part, but that's a double edged sword too. You don't have to look too hard on the boards to find posts about how folks are angry that twinks aren't joining groups and are instead soloing.

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[Quineloe]

who are you in game tankdan?

[Vindor]

That's nothing, try having your tank or/and chanter drop without warning to join the group 30m from you. Well in the end we did better without them lol but i cant recall this kind of ballshit being accepted as normal behavior back in the days.

[Rhambuk]

I agree with OP until 40+ there is almost no warning when people leave and it is disheartening.

I always try to give at minimum a 30 minute notice if I can't find a rep, its really not too much effort.

For the folks that say they have a wife a job a kid etc, hey ya know what its real easy to tell the group when you join that you have a life and might have to go unexpectedly. Whats that you're worried they won't take you into the group because your unreliable? what a bunch of assholes they should definitely cater to your real life and sacrifice their time for you.

It's not hard to let people know you are busy or leaving at a time, entire groups collapse because 1 member just leaves.

I support the blacklist, keep it going and make you're own groups if its an issue.

[Wudan]

Originally Posted by Rhambuk [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

entire groups collapse because 1 member just leaves

LOL. You must be joining/leading some weak ass lame groups if they collapse because of 1 member leaving. Last time I was in Crypt we had our tank bail without warning...guess what happened?! Group did not collapse! Yea, I know! Crazy, aint it? Instead, I tanked it on my shaman while LF tank. In most cases there is a way how to overcome 1 member leaving. Cut the bullshit and stop complaining about a non-problem.

[Rhambuk]

Originally Posted by Wudan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

LOL. You must be joining/leading some weak ass lame groups if they collapse because of 1 member leaving. Last time I was in Crypt we had our tank bail without warning...guess what happened?! Group did not collapse! Yea, I know! Crazy, aint it? Instead, I tanked it on my shaman while LF tank. In most cases there is a way how to overcome 1 member leaving. Cut the bullshit and stop complaining about a non-problem.

only read the first sentence, were talking about lower to mid level groups. Tank leaves or cleric leaves people take that as an opportunity to leave themselves, tank goes then a cleric goes because they don't want to wait for another tank and you have 4 dps left that pretty much give up. I don't really make groups because im a wizard and i get more soloing so if it goes down the tubes oh well.

but not everyone can solo like that