What's something good that happened today?

[GinnasP99]

If you don't like watermelon you've obv never spent a day in a muggy Alabama summer. That stuff literally brings you back to life.
ohh yeah, and if you don't eat it cold you don't know what you're doing.

[starkind]

Ya I really hate fruit. Force myself to eat prunes, strawberries and stuff to try and get a serving in. Diced and cooked into something is tolerable.

My mom has gone through whole watermelons by herself.

I also really hate chilled or iced food and drinks. And I don't mind a balmy 89F 70% humidity.

I do like grape PB&J though.

[Cecily]

I just learned my research project due in about 12 hours is a pppowerpoint instead of a paper. I like writing and I'm good at it, but it's sooo hard for me to get started. Like looking at project for first time on day it's due hard. It might not have happened because I have impossible standards for my essays, none of which I have for pppowerpoints. This is doable.

[Cecily]

https://harmreductionjournal.biomedc...954-018-0232-z

[starkind]

Atefruit today. Made funny faces the whole time. Later liver patte was my reward.

[robayon]

It's Tuesday. Tuesday is Sex and Salmon night.

[Kaveh]

Don’t ghost people man, I didn’t grow up in the era when that was common but it just sounds shitty

As for the date being weird, good riddance. Honestly, she sounds kind of fake

[unsunghero]

Originally Posted by Kaveh [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Don’t ghost people man, I didn’t grow up in the era when that was common but it just sounds shitty

As for the date being weird, good riddance. Honestly, she sounds kind of fake

The alternative to ghosting is to do what she did and say “I just didn’t feel a connection, sorry”

Trust me when I say this, I am by far an outlier in how people will process and accept that statement. My response of “no worries, u as well!” is what everyone hopes for but few will get, trust me. A lot, and I mean a lot, of people will get defensive when rejected. They will either ask for what they did wrong as ammunition to argue it, or say something negative back like “well I didn’t like you either, you’re ugly” or something to salvage wounded pride

It’s a nice thing to do but it does not tend to play out nice. I’m a generally non-confrontational person so I would prefer to just avoid it

What I don’t do is flippantly ghost people. If someone tries a joke online with me that doesn’t land, that won’t be a dealbreaker for me. I’ll continue to give them a chance and meet just about everyone I start a conversation with. So I am far less judgemental than most

[Kaveh]

I still think honesty is the best policy, but good luck on your dates buddy

[GinnasP99]

Dude, I'd get off the dating apps man. You aren't going to find quality there. Boyfriend #53 never wins. If your goals are similar to mind (a real wife and children), it's not gonna happen on an app, those women are trash.

Ohh, this is interesting too, I think. I don't really believe in this boyfriend/girlfriend crap. The word girlfriend isn't in the bible 1 time, the word wife appears 407 times. Think about that.