A dark truth.

[magnetaress]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

That's absolutely right. Why I ask about the context in this case is you're referring to a schism between transmedicalists and everyone is valid Tumblr types. I'm sure you're very interested in all this but yeah anyways here we go: It comes down to whether or not dysphoria is considered a necessary requirement for transition. Like do it if this is killing you, but otherwise why the fuck would you do this unless you're hurting from not doing it? The tucute (to be cis) opposition thinks everyone is valid and the only stamp to get your transcard stamped is to identify as trans.

Both sides are assholes, but I'm truscum (transmedicalist) essentially. You generally see that with self-hating older hons (excellent word to add to your vocabulary btw) like me. Younger people are more accepting of anyone, so honestly it's not a bad thing, but you get cat Nazis in the mix when you let anyone in.

Terf rhetoric is especially incinidary if you want good troll fodder. Ask a trans woman to define what a woman is. There's literally no adequate answer to that. Kinda like defining Zen.

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So you're complaining about being lumped in with the gays, but also upset that you're lumped in with the queens and other gender variant types. How can we best be sensitive to your special needs? Wouldn't wanna offend you, again.

Well, I definitely won't argue any of that. Great post.

[imperiouskitten]

Originally Posted by magnetaress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I've only tried to help everyone here. You above all Imperiouskitten.

I'm not even going to ask you to take it back or defend myself. At least I can look other women in the eye.

No, I'm not mad at you, and I care. What I write mostly isn't about you 99% of it is generalized or 98% about me. And my brushes with real cannabilism and predation. I'm very aware of it.

Sorry for the mistakes I made that got us here. For reals. I'm going to continue being more careful here on out.

And the immediate shift from this post to bonding over bullying the next isolated female around. I've known what you are for awhile now. But watching all 3 of the last posters left from the good old days embrace their compulsion to attack perceived weakness is nauseating. Deep shame on you and don't bother with the gaslighting reply; it's over.

Obviously being mtf medical trans is distinct from some identity stuff. The first post you quote above indicates you agree with that. The second post you quote serves only to attack Nexii, in direct contradiction of the first. Just to explain what you already know.

You people are vultures. Pokesan knows his relationship with this too. I really hate being the kindest, most empathetic person around because the kindness really is something I need to work on. The 3 of you aren't even trying. It's gotta be goodbye from here, and I pray you can learn in retrospect what you couldn't in the last years. I'm goin where Lune went.

[Cecily]

There's an old saying in tHe CoMmunITy: what's the difference between a cross dresser and a trans woman? 2 years.

[imperiouskitten]

I really don't know that one, nor had I ever heard "tucute". Garbage in, garbage out.

[magnetaress]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

And the immediate shift from this post to bonding over bullying the next isolated female around. I've known what you are for awhile now. But watching all 3 of the last posters left from the good old days embrace their compulsion to attack perceived weakness is nauseating. Deep shame on you and don't bother with the gaslighting reply; it's over.

Obviously being mtf medical trans is distinct from some identity stuff. The first post you quote above indicates you agree with that. The second post you quote serves only to attack Nexii, in direct contradiction of the first. Just to explain what you already know.

You people are vultures.

I'm not sure I follow you. Nexii is a big girl and doesn't need my coddling or approval.

You're going beserk. I'm not saying you don't have good reason. But.

*boohisssss* that's what I am seeing. Rise above it.

Or not. You've got my number, not that you'll ever need it. I'm not slamming the door in anyone's face.

I hope you feel better soon.

[magnetaress]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

There's an old saying in tHe CoMmunITy: what's the difference between a cross dresser and a trans woman? 2 years.

Tbqh, it's a lot more than two years. Requires passing privilege, RLE. And a life event waking the poor girl in question up out of their victimization and self pity and eternal injustice rage to be able to truly accept those that disagree with and fear or hate her. If she can't let that go and respect others as she wants to be respected.

There's no point. Some people never get there.

[imperiouskitten]

Originally Posted by magnetaress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm not sure I follow you. Nexii is a big girl and doesn't need my coddling or approval.

You're going beserk. I'm not saying you don't have good reason. But.

*boohisssss* that's what I am seeing. Rise above it.

Or not. You've got my number, not that you'll ever need it. I'm not slamming the door in anyone's face.

I hope you feel better soon.

I'm at the end of my rope with you, having watched you very deliberately encourage Cecily's psychotic behavior yet again in the last 2 days, immediately after I expressed to you the effective and disgusting angle she is employing. Of course you know what I am talking about. If the compulsion really takes you so subtly that you can't see it, I am deeply sorry. But I would eat a shoe if that were really true, as you blink and forget calling me a whore yesterday to egg her on when she was displaying pre-meltdown mania. Here I am literally still trying to help her get over this after how wrong she has done me, and you join in. You're truly awful.

Pokesan same rope, but I think he's just completely careless and stupid in behavior, well beyond what he's capable of. Unloving & unhelpful, & still flexing his N word pass at me in PMs after my messages.

Cecily just the same old jealous obsession, chillingly evil manipulative domineering friend guiding her into it, and the behavioral issues called down upon me by those factors, of course. Just a potent vehicle for revealing your uncontrollable sadism, and the absolute passivity and unlovingness of pokesan. Nexii would do well to remember you both creepy ones act in envy.

Peace out my sad old friends. The circle grows smaller and the mutual abuse (& cellulite) less diluted.

[magnetaress]

Later gator.

[Cecily]

Lol it gets funnier every edit.

[magnetaress]

Had to say goodbye to this gentleman today.

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His trip across the rainbow bridge was easy. He was a loving Papa and sweet old man.