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There's no such thing as talent.
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Being downvoted on social media because of giving people facts and examples that don't support their liberal bias lol.
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Idk man. I'm no musician. I've seen kids take to drumming like breathing. I've seen ppl work there whole lives to get where Tuna is. I couldn't even play sheet music or remember a single song like frere jacques. No matter how much effort I put in. I even had to Google the song title. That doesn't mean talented people aren't skilled. Talented people are still skilled. | |||
Last edited by starkind; 04-18-2022 at 09:28 PM..
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Starkind, that's an excuse mindset. I've played the guitar 25 years, I was very blessed to be introduced to it by my uncle when I was 12 years old. I do admit there is such a thing as a natural aptitude towards certain things. Some will be good at drawing, music, this, that, the other. I also have many other "talents", things that people see me do and say "wow, I wish I could do that"
I'm here to tell you, YOU CAN. Get to work. Anything you've ever seen, in your whole life, another human being do. (you're a human being too right, 2 hands, 10 fingers) YOU CAN DO IT TOO.
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Last edited by GinnasP99; 04-18-2022 at 09:49 PM..
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Ohh here's something else to chew on, that excuse mindset. "I couldn't even play sheet music"
Being a beginner IS OK. Everyone sucks when they start something. Everyone.
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I get that. 99% of the time it's excuses too for real. You're not wrong. Exactly..
I'm like neurologically busted in this regard its not an excuse. I spent 2 years trying to get any good at sax. 1 with piano... one singing... If it doesn't matter...what I'm playing or don't need to play it again ever the sameish way or correctly even. I did alright) Also still tone def too lol. I am good at like...something tho. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] Just ain't songs lol. Maybe I just needed to keep trying for like an entire decade! I don't mean to be a dreamkiller... If it's something u want and it's not hurting anyone or yourself... never give up. | ||
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In psych we are trained that it’s better to validate work than talent or “born-with” gifts, especially with kids. If a kid gets a good grade, validate with “Wow you musta studied hard for that, good job!” Rather than “Wow you are really bright!” Because one sets up a path to improvement, and the other sets up a barrier where the kid might think they’re not smart enough, or as smart as they thought, when they inevitably get a bad grade | |||
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