Serious question about Love, Sex, Romance & Relationships, adults only

[Lexical]

Originally Posted by Hailto [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I was like 12 during classic, which kind of sucks because i was too young to really take full advantage of the game. I remember when i got my first spells on my paladin i ran around just casting heal spells cause they looked cool.

This. I was quite young playing the game and remember being yelled at by some very surly adventurers while playing my enchanter because I wasn't playing my class right. Taught me a lot though.

[fishingme]

I'm going to tell OP this now. You'll always be the one initiating sex until you stop asking for it. Just be a loof and chill for a while. Eventually she'll be the one initiating sex.

[Akim]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Wondering what you guys think and kind of just want to vent some frustration.
Seriously.

I love my fiance, she's great, our relationship is stronger than most, we are both open minded individuals and feel free to explore things in and out of the bedroom.

I feel like no topic is taboo and there is nothing I would ever feel the need to hide from her. I respect her feelings and want to make her happy and all that.

But as a man, sometimes I get really frustrated that it's my responsibility to set the mood and turn her on. I feel like I always have to light the candles, get the massage oil out, do all the foreplay and if I want to have any chance at getting a blow job I better go down on her first and hope she returns the favor.

I just feel like there is romantic love making, but there should also be time for straight up getting busy. I feel like I should come home and be surprised greeted by her dropping to her knees and unzipping my fly every once in awhile or I should be able to kiss her on the neck from behind and bend her over in the kitchen every now and again.

She says that's not the way she works and that maybe some girls can get turned on that fast but not her and that she has to be in the right mood etc...

Am I being selfish and unreasonable? Maybe I watch too much porn and expect too much?

You're planning on marrying this person, meaning you're hoping for your entire life together and she doesn't satisfy you sexually.
This isn't good, but it can be fixed.
You know how sometimes you feel more sexual at some points in your life than others, well so does she.
You should somehow push her into yoga/palates classes ASAP and get that libido going.
Lower her stress load? Perhaps it's time for a change of routine.

Now that you've blamed her, could it be on you?
How about exciting changes you could make to yourself. Think about it, I sure as hell can't. Maybe you need some wax, a gym pass, join in on those yoga classes. I don't know, you didn't leave me with many details and I don't expect you too.

Or could it be your surroundings?
Don't know pal.
I wish the best for you and their are people out there who spice up your sex lives professionally if you're still not getting satisfied.

[dredge]

Thanks, Akim, I think Yoga is a great idea, my buddy is a world class certified trainer is some serious Hindu type yoga.

I'm getting a rebounder trampoline thing for xmas and we are both going to lose weight before getting married. I'm planning on dropping a hundred pounds hopefully, biking, rebounding, dieting, green juicing, walking, etc...
she only needs to lose about 30ish I think. I made a promise to myself to lose the weight before getting married, I want to start our life's together healthy and positive, I don't want to look like one of those "lowered expectations" comedy bits. My Uncle was really heavy and died when he was like 50 yrs old, I don't want to go out like that.

oh and btw, barking turtle. Your a Prick, seriously just stfu. I'm done with even reading your posts, I'm just going to block and ignore you from now on. Peace out.

[Daldolma]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Thanks, Akim, I think Yoga is a great idea, my buddy is a world class certified trainer is some serious Hindu type yoga.

I'm getting a rebounder trampoline thing for xmas and we are both going to lose weight before getting married. I'm planning on dropping a hundred pounds hopefully, biking, rebounding, dieting, green juicing, walking, etc...
she only needs to lose about 30ish I think. I made a promise to myself to lose the weight before getting married, I want to start our life's together healthy and positive, I don't want to look like one of those "lowered expectations" comedy bits. My Uncle was really heavy and died when he was like 50 yrs old, I don't want to go out like that.

oh and btw, barking turtle. Your a Prick, seriously just stfu. I'm done with even reading your posts, I'm just going to block and ignore you from now on. Peace out.

You're entirely too genuine for RnF. I can't decide if that's endearing or irritating.

[Nips]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Thanks, Akim, I think Yoga is a great idea, my buddy is a world class certified trainer is some serious Hindu type yoga.

I'm getting a rebounder trampoline thing for xmas and we are both going to lose weight before getting married. I'm planning on dropping a hundred pounds hopefully, biking, rebounding, dieting, green juicing, walking, etc...
she only needs to lose about 30ish I think. I made a promise to myself to lose the weight before getting married, I want to start our life's together healthy and positive, I don't want to look like one of those "lowered expectations" comedy bits. My Uncle was really heavy and died when he was like 50 yrs old, I don't want to go out like that.

oh and btw, barking turtle. Your a Prick, seriously just stfu. I'm done with even reading your posts, I'm just going to block and ignore you from now on. Peace out.

100 pounds.. and you are wondering why it is so hard for her to get turned on...
Quit playing EQ and work out. It is pretty simple

[Barkingturtle]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'm getting a rebounder trampoline thing for xmas and we are both going to lose weight before getting married. I'm planning on dropping a hundred pounds hopefully, biking, rebounding, dieting, green juicing, walking, etc...
she only needs to lose about 30ish I think. I made a promise to myself to lose the weight before getting married...

I'm not going to kid you: judging by her pic in this thread she needs to lose about thirty pounds of hand alone. Hey man, don't shoot the messenger.

And good luck losing all that weight with your little trampoline and your "walking" and "green-juicing". I can't imagine how much green juice you'd have to pass to lose that much fat. I'm not being sarcastic. Anyway, just be prepared and don't be too hard on yourself when you fail repeatedly--it's kinda your thing. <3

[dredge]

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my buddy, can you believe this guy?

[dredge]

seriously wtf is your problem?
first off if your so awesome post a pic of yourself. I Dare you! Same to you Barking Turtle and Ogre.
I'm convinced Barking turtle, Ogre and Purist are one in the same person. They all follow my every move here and hound the shit out of me.

Post a pic or STFU, tell us about your awesome careers and love life's or STFU.

Think about how sad that is, fuck.

Get your own life and leave me the fuck alone. For real.
Damn.

[dredge]

I can lose the weight, can you lose the fact that your a complete asshole?