I don't care what political, cultural. or social values u hold

[Cecily]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I've been trying to get neoteny, queer-baitery, looking good etc added as an intersectional complex because it makes even Pokesan go frothy at teh mouth. Everyone who can't have you either assumes uve got it easy, or is in so much denial they go sideways from reality and real angry. Nobody understands what it's like to be beautiful

Let us know if you find out.

[imperiouskitten]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Let us know if you find out.

It's easy to tell when you're good-looking, because it's like a secret club. A lot of defenses go down between both parties. There's a special nod you do when you are with a group, and wind up alone w/ the only other hot person. Etc.

Also you can tell relative beauties of your friends by various techniques for instance like if you bring that person to the bar, they get swarmed by the strippers etc just looking to grab-ass and tease him for being shy and beautiful. Using this and comparable first-hand experiences you can do some algebra to rate your own attractiveness in the general eyes of others. It is hard to be delusional about being attractive; indeed self-confidence in this area is in itself a rarified and very effective attracting trait!

I sure hope this helps. Btw I recently got all the hairs removed from my face and it owns, like another rocket boost stage added

[Cecily]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

It's easy to tell when you're good-looking, because it's like a secret club. A lot of defenses go down between both parties. There's a special nod you do when you are with a group, and wind up alone w/ the only other hot person. Etc.

Also you can tell relative beauties of your friends by various techniques for instance like if you bring that person to the bar, they get swarmed by the strippers etc just looking to grab-ass and tease him for being shy and beautiful. Using this and comparable first-hand experiences you can do some algebra to rate your own attractiveness in the general eyes of others. It is hard to be delusional about being attractive; indeed self-confidence in this area is in itself a rarified and very effective attracting trait!

I sure hope this helps.

Can't relate. Shop keepers chase me out with pitchforks.

[imperiouskitten]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Can't relate. Shop keepers chase me out with pitchforks.

that's okay. one time when i was having a "bad day" i went to get a motel room to escalate this conflict with my husband, and the old asian lady at the counter wouldn't give me a room. She wouldn't believe that I wasn't meeting a man there for prostitution. "Just ONE person!" she said 5 times before pretending my card wouldnt work. I was dressed perfectly modestly. I claim this as another example of this intersectional issue; if I were obese I would have gotten that room.

So you see, we can ALL be chased out by shop keepers. maybe I do not deserve the most ruthless fusillades of envious bitterness yall can muster

[Nexii]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I've been trying to get neoteny, queer-baitery, looking good etc added as an intersectional complex because it makes even Pokesan go frothy at teh mouth. Everyone who can't have you either assumes uve got it easy, or is in so much denial they go sideways from reality and real angry. Nobody understands what it's like to be beautiful

My stories also fascinated. Wonder what depraved desires lay repressed. Probably lots.

I think I can pull off attractive with effort. Probably should more often it's a good feeling when I get there

[Pulgasari]

Originally Posted by Nexii [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

My stories also fascinated. Wonder what depraved desires lay repressed. Probably lots.

I think I can pull off attractive with effort. Probably should more often it's a good feeling when I get there

Just so we're clear, it would be ok to be mean to you under the morality J is pretending at.

She has no leg to stand on, they're pointed skyward. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[imperiouskitten]

unmuted the genius to observe he is gaslighting Nexii. no, we don't dogpile people who stand out under my sense of morality nor get downright mean with sweethearts. It IS okay to poke fun of course!

People who are on here to earnestly try to drive others away, like pokesan admitted yesterday are really pathetic imo. It is clear now though; he hates me and believes I deserve mistreatment.

Cecily i'm not trying to summon you, I do think you are a relevant individual in the roster here tho so I name check. I'll try to stop, i've said my piece many times now. Only point was to get pokesan to finally articulate his bad intent.

I hate "leaving people behind" who are just socially retarded and it is hard for me to let go. It's a weakness but it's not a mental illness; I've gained the ability to resist attract-and-abuse creeps. Some people exist in a permanent stasis where they can't conceive of their friends evolving and won't evolve the relationship with them. These are children and don't love you much like a housecat.

In this case there is no recovery; we are locked across whatever that gulf is in Pokesan's head that draws his hatred to Nexii and even holds it there after it's called to attention. How my behavior vindicates that behavior I know not. Seems like sharks in the water don't like someone who sours all their little social atrocities and attempts to impart a sense of ostracism to our more thoughtful, creative members. Myself, am proud to have the taste and character to maintain friendship with one of the only decent people on here, who developed a forum career under heavy fire showing great courage to express herself.

If you can't believe that I'm saying that in all seriousness, you are too jaded for me. Not sure why it's so hard to believe a sensitive person could put on a hard outer shell before transition. Pretty sure it's all jelly and jam.

Anyway Nexii, I can't let you be sure bait for me so I'm going into full mute mode on the Nazis here

[Pulgasari]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

unmuted the genius to observe he is gaslighting Nexii. no, we don't dogpile people who stand out under my sense of morality nor get downright mean with sweethearts. It IS okay to poke fun of course!

People who are on here to earnestly try to drive others away, like pokesan admitted yesterday are really pathetic imo. It is clear now though; he hates me and believes I deserve mistreatment.

Cecily i'm not trying to summon you, I do think you are a relevant individual in the roster here tho so I name check. I'll try to stop, i've said my piece many times now. Only point was to get pokesan to finally articulate his bad intent.

I hate "leaving people behind" who are just socially retarded and it is hard for me to let go. It's a weakness but it's not a mental illness; I've gained the ability to resist attract-and-abuse creeps. Some people exist in a permanent stasis where they can't conceive of their friends evolving and won't evolve the relationship with them. These are children and don't love you much like a housecat.

In this case there is no recovery; we are locked across whatever that gulf is in Pokesan's head that draws his hatred to Nexii and even holds it there after it's called to attention. How my behavior vindicates that behavior I know not. Seems like sharks in the water don't like someone who sours all their little social atrocities and attempts to impart a sense of ostracism to our more thoughtful, creative members. Myself, am proud to have the taste and character to maintain friendship with one of the only decent people on here, who developed a forum career under heavy fire showing great courage to express herself.

If you can't believe that I'm saying that in all seriousness, you are too jaded for me. Not sure why it's so hard to believe a sensitive person could put on a hard outer shell before transition. Pretty sure it's all jelly and jam.

Anyway Nexii, I can't let you be sure bait for me so I'm going into full mute mode on the Nazis here

meow

[starkind]

Originally Posted by Jimjam [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

People talk about individual responsibility - they should look after them self - but it also means you are accountable for the consequences of your actions.

So when people argue against pro social behaviour of being a matter of individual responsibility choice they are arguing they are liable for their negligence in social responsibility.

Aren't we negligent if we allow others to abuse people and promote a government that doesn't allow self defense? And promote a society that creates people incapable of defending themselves or others? Or where people are rewarded for turning a blind eye to evil greater more powerful than them?

Originally Posted by Jibartik [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Personal responsibility means if you mouth off to a cop or make any snap movements you deserve to die, but if you dont wear a mask and give the cop covid it was your freedom.

Speaking of



who's right in that example?

Anyway the problem is that the cop gets to decide who's wrong in that example. Not the neighbors.

[Gwaihir]

Why do I get the feels that Pulgarassi is Wonk?