Serious question about Love, Sex, Romance & Relationships, adults only

[Misto]

Originally Posted by Ephirith [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

At first I thought women were the most amazing thing ever. Purity of form and spirit, a coveted thing to be pampered and respected. I thought if I showed them kindness and compassion those feelings would be reciprocated.

Then I learned what women were actually like, and I wanted to knife every single one of them.

Now I just kind of quietly wish I were gay, but I'm not, and it sucks.

lol - made the rest of my evening

[Hailto]

Originally Posted by Ephirith [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

At first I thought women were the most amazing thing ever. Purity of form and spirit, a coveted thing to be pampered and respected. I thought if I showed them kindness and compassion those feelings would be reciprocated.

Then I learned what women were actually like, and I wanted to knife every single one of them.

Now I just kind of quietly wish I were gay, but I'm not, and it sucks.

Find a passable tranny, problem solved.

[Hasbinlulz]

Originally Posted by Ephirith [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Now I just kind of quietly wish I were gay, but I'm not, and it sucks.

[Ahldagor]

Originally Posted by Hasbinlulz [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Your first mistake is expecting anything from a romantic partner.

Try to get rid of your expectations and just "be" with her for like a week. Stop trying to make anything happen, just be there, be yourself. Then ask yourself: "Am I having a good time?"

The answer to that question will inform your ultimate question.

That's as honest an answer you'll get. Have to remove your self from the equation to get some perspective like a good acid trip, expect it all indifferently.

[dredge]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

[Hailto]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

If you think she doesn't show enough raw sexual interest now. Wait until you're like 50 years old, you're going to be one of those guys going to gay glory holes to get your nut. Abandon ship imo, note my post earlier though, you have to find a good balance here, either extreme is bad.

[Ahldagor]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

There's no hiccup. Have you guys hit the 3 year mark?

[Greegon]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

dude we have lived together 8 months, you think I haven't been myself? Lol, she's the love of my life, just having a small hicup is all

8 months not that long, wait till its been like 4 years.. rather than want more sex youll prob be looking for more alone time lol

[dredge]

Believe me there are more important things then me having to be the one setting the mood bro, I'm not perfect. You don't throw the baby out with the bath water. She's awesome and open to lots of ideas if I even choose to go there, like bringing home other woman to join us and stuff. I'm just not in any hurry if at all, done that with the ex and she got crazy emotional after and I ended up in the dog house

[Misto]

Originally Posted by dredge [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Believe me there are more important things then me having to be the one setting the mood bro, I'm not perfect. You don't throw the baby out with the bath water. She's awesome and open to lots of ideas if I even choose to go there, like bringing home other woman to join us and stuff. I'm just not in any hurry if at all, done that with the ex and she got crazy emotional after and I ended up in the dog house

Sounds like you're a big giant pussy that doesn't know how good he has it then.

Oh no. I'm complacent with things and have a good life. Wahh