Well Dredge, first and foremost you have to realize asking for relationship advice in this forum is probably the worst place to ask. Most of these people have never been in a serious relationship, have not been married, or even have had kids.
That being said, there is a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." The books title basically explains the whole fucked up equation that explains women and men alike.
The answer is that women and men perceive the world COMPLETELY differently. As someone earlier wrote in this forum post, women want to be pampered, taken care of, they basically want a daddy. Men are visual, we get turned on by a nice ass or whatever. Women are emphatic, and enjoy the sort of aggressive confidence a man can carry in an intellectual kind of way. Men are naturally horny, and sex typically is not that big of a deal for us. All of this stuff is on the subconscious level.
I am no psychologist or whatever, but I have definitely been with a ton of women. I have met them at bars, online, the gym, wherever. I have been in serious relationships and the like. I have had one night stands. (and you never want to get with someone you have had a one nighter with, typically)
I can tell you this, a woman with a straight head will never want to be in a relationship with someone for the sex. Never. Yes it is an added bonus, but typically women want stability, whether if it is financial or emotional, if any of these pillars fall so does certain elements of the relationship.
The question is, how long can you endure? And how far are you willing to go to make someone happy, but at the same time, how far are they willing to go?
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12-09-2012, 04:49 PM
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