How to meet girls?

[robayon]

Aw, shucks

[DeathsSilkyMist]

Like everything else in life, dating is a skill. Some people are more naturally gifted at it than others. Dating also needs other skills, such as social skills, and hygene skills.

Natural looks help, but looks cannot be easily changed, and many women honestly aren't looking for a male model, even if they claim it. Most people look somewhat attractive, unless you got extremely unlucky genetically.

You just need to keep getting back on the horse every time you fail. You will learn something new from every attempt, and level up your dating skills. Eventually you will meet someone who won't reject you. Just be patient, persistent, and don't stalk people lol. When they say they aren't interested, they probably mean it.

For your original question, if you want to practice dating online, volume is key. Join as many big sites as you can, and be as active as you can. Unfortunately these sites are designed to give you too many choices (and you really only have a picture to go with), so most of the time it is luck when you find someone who is willing to chat with you for more than 5 seconds.

[Gravydoo II]

LOL you guys fell for that so hard

[Ooloo]

Haha proto-fascist. I bet you felt so cool typing that word.

JP is a mild-mannered, clinical psychologist and author who used to teach at Harvard, he has a lot of great advice to give not just young men, but young people in general at a loss for direction or a sense of purpose in their lives, which cuts to an existential dilemma we all face.

How strong somebody's totally unfounded vendetta against JP is serves as a good measure of how crazy they are I find.

[Homesteaded]

Originally Posted by robayon [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Pickleball has worked pretty well for my dad, give that a whirl, just don't come off too desperate

Funny! I've been playing pickleball for three years now. Picked it up after I had shoulder surgery. Awesome time. I'm also married, not lonely, three children. Life is good at Homesteaded's Homestead.

Originally Posted by Ooloo [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

How strong somebody's totally unfounded vendetta against JP is serves as a good measure of how crazy they are I find.

Pretty accurate. The old lady and I are going on a double date to a JP event this year, should be a great time. I'm not afraid to admit that JP has helped me, helped crystalize some things for me.

[F0rmsh1fter]

Lmao imagine thinking jp is any sort of fascist

I swear, these commies never did their vocal homework

[Toehammer]

Originally Posted by F0rmsh1fter [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Lmao imagine thinking jp is any sort of fascist

I swear, these commies never did their vocal homework

He does not actually think JP is a proto-fascist. Usually commies, or other wet noodles, have a problem with men with strong characters for no discernable reason, and can't provide coherent evidence that formed their opinion. Ignore button is your friend, unless you want to hear incoherent anti-capitalist, economically illiterate ramblings, sandwiched between fascist, racist, sexist, istist, formed at a junior high cognitive level. I have never met a self-proclaimed socialist, marxist, or communist that wasn't 100% pure human pu$$y repellent.

[Jibartik]

I wish I could read history books about our generation.

[robayon]

Looks like this really got the Alpha Males out the woodwork, hehe

Think I'll go to Russia for my crippling benzo addiction, and find a good trepanator to cure my addiction rather than follow the advice I've been giving teenagers and manchildren for years about using common sense

Me, a strong male character like Jordan Peterson

You fellas are precious. Defending someone who is basically Harry Potter, but for the fellas who apparently need to be told "women are human beings"

[Homesteaded]

Originally Posted by robayon [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Looks like this really got the Alpha Males out the woodwork, hehe

Think I'll go to Russia for my crippling benzo addiction, and find a good trepanator to cure my addiction rather than follow the advice I've been giving teenagers and manchildren for years about using common sense

Me, a strong male character like Jordan Peterson

You fellas are precious. Defending someone who is basically Harry Potter, but for the fellas who apparently need to be told "women are human beings"

More of the same ramblings. Zero knowledge of any subject they speak about.