Advice on life

[magnetaress]

There's truth to the forgiveness aspect. It has more to do with not blaming him, and taking ownership of your own flaws, not saying "my life sux because my dad X". And not focusing so much hateful attention or energy on him.

I didn't in person in face really forgive my dad, I spent a day with him and my sister at the mall and told him I didn't hate him. But that's really like the last time I deeply spoke with him. But I put a lot of personal intention into it. I prayed and meditated on forgiveness. I still don't think its safe for me to go near him and talk to him. But I am free, and in my mind he is forgiven. Some. I guess it's not an all at once process either.

In my youth I used that all as an excuse to torment him, which made me a worse person. Hurt me, more than it hurt him.

But it's not his fault my present condition is terrible. At all. I have had many years, and many chances to change that without him interfering.

[imperiouskitten]

What does sex do to people? I'm not talkin bathhouses and hotrails here, I'm talkin about playing "mold ur own fleshlight" with 1 nice girl (or whatever you prefer [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] ) very Christianlike, then eating your greens and fibrous diet, drinking electrolytes, then doing it again.

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

What does sex do to people? I'm not talkin bathhouses here, I'm talkin about playing "mold ur own fleshlight" with 1 nice girl (or whatever you prefer [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] ) very Christianlike.

well I do have a girlfriend (she's awesome [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]) but the way you say it like that is just

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[imperiouskitten]

Originally Posted by Tunabros [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

well I do have a girlfriend (she's awesome [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]) but the way you say it like that is just

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Hmmm you do like RPGs. Maybe you would enjoy it more with a quest system. You could set goals, like making her lose control of her breathing or making sounds involuntarily, or sobbing. Once you build those dopa loops it'll feel better everytime [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] like lvling to 60

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Hmmm you do like RPGs. Maybe you would enjoy it more with a quest system. You could set goals, like making her lose control of her breathing or making sounds involuntarily, or sobbing. Once you build those dopa loops it'll feel better everytime [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] like lvling to 60

what the fuck did I just read

no hate but what the hell

no lol, I don't go in rough I'm too young don't want any accidental mini tunabros running

around

[imperiouskitten]

okok I'll stop teasing you [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

wait one more...

sounds GAY

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

okok I'll stop teasing you [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

wait one more...

sounds GAY

no homo

[HalflingSpergand]

Get a fuckin job and move out loser.

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by HalflingSpergand [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Get a fuckin job and move out loser.

learn to read, retard

If you had a developed brain (like the rest of us), you would have read and gotten context before posting

I stated I was only 22, have a part time job, and have to take care of my both my sister and mother and currently still in school getting my degree

[HalflingSpergand]

Mom n sister - not your problem
Degree - waste of time
Part time job - waste of time