Too many issues, about to give up

[Plowyabeastlord]

As of lately, seems to be around the last patch I can get into the game about 5% of the time. The other 95% of the time I get blank server list, or if I can get to char select it is also blank. If the rare chance I can make it into the game I don't dare zone because ill freeze and LD.

What have I tried.
Everything ive searched on forums. ive tried on wifi, directly connected to my router, firewall stuff, I need a techy type person to help. give me a starting ground before I say forget it and just give up.