DEX Gear

[Vadd]

My Dex is round 107 unbuffed.

I am an Ogre, no Planar yet, starting stats went into STA.

I tank just fine. If anything, I'd say put starting stats into Dex. Each piece of my gear is essentially a combination, or an exceptionally high amount, of either: HP, AC, STA, MR

That's just MY preference though.
Some people like CoF/Wolf Hide Girdle/Grotesque Mask/Peggy Cloak, etc.

Buffs can always compensate either in the form of Dex or Haste. Taunt works too.

Attack>Taunt>Slam is how I usually snag a mob off of puller.