What makes a pvp game actually good?

[Jibartik]

Idk about this, because I both like and dont like open world PVP

But I cant help but argue that the feelings I chase when engaging in open world PVP is knowing the person on the other side is upset, not having fun with me.

So, there is something that is wrong about it, but I cant quite figure out a good way to retain open world PVP and make it just be fun for everyone, even the dude who spent 4 hours setting up his camp to have a rogue log in and kill him and log off and go bang his 10/10 wife.