A dark truth.

[Nexii]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

sorry but medical transition matters. I'm sorry this bothers you. I am quite polite and open even to meeting "identifiers", and wouldn't advocate any discrimination toward them or whatever if i had any power. Their results and public perception will be about commensurate with the depth of their transition efforts, kind of self policing. But it is obvious that there is a difference between their category and mine, although the language does not exist to express it politely.

your incessant transphobic comments to me should stop for more than a few days before you feel you have a leg to stand on with this, particularly in reference to an engagement which is me trying to deactivate a multiyear stalker and obsessive who leverages something absolutely heinous IRL she has made her self connected to in attempt to torment me, which you know. So you also know, this entity even followed up again in PMs after all you read here in a "show warmth, ask again for phone number" mode. Deranged aggressive humans in a male hormonal configuration who stalk and manipulate and abuse women and move constantly to be close to them after clear rejection, shielding themselves from group revulsion with female identity, will be called out by people including me.

I'm not the fucking hormone cops checking papers here and I'm not arguing politics, I am the subject of a 3 year harassment campaign accurately characterizing a person who incessantly abuses and tries to get close to me. And frankly, I would be right to say whatever the fuck I feel like saying if it might get her off of me. And you have every fact at hand to understand that.

How you could feel just in popping a virtue boner while publicly attacking me for my conduct in this interaction is completely beyond me. I would have expected you to be the only one privy to the facts of this and not too sick and compulsively sadistic (magnetaress) to egg it on. To characterize this interaction as an argument is completely disgusting too and reinforces the frame of reference this stalker clings to in order to continue its obsession. You don't argue with a person who is mugging, assaulting, or incessantly following you around - you scream at them or something. You minimize and knowingly contribute to the problem just like magnetaress, and carelessly frame this as some sort of dispute between friends when you know what it really is. You're a huge disappointment doing none of the three of us any favors and stirring shit while you stand up for right. Keep your next "n-word pass" transphobic dogshit for me in your mouth, after all there is nothing else intimate about our acquaintance.

The irony of Cecily being upset at me for playing an obviously fictional character in fictional settings, while pretending to be a transitioning female in real life is hilarious. Imagine thinking that stalking for years after a few-month casual friendship is anything but super creepy and obsessive.

While Cassawary is just triggered by everything it would seem. Needs a healthy dose of something called the real world, if only every little thing didn't trigger so badly that he can't get out. Hiding inside and going down the incel path is not going to end in a very happy life.

[Nexii]

Originally Posted by imperiouskitten [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

cassawary literally on here calling me gay 5 days ago expecting me to roll with it, for the record not retconning this, it made me very uncomfortable. now earnestly triggered that a trans lady would distinguish between actual medical trans women and identifying crossdressers who quit hormones to get their fucking porn boners back. After, as he witnessed, I nearly died and traded my hands for 3 years or life if necessary for medical transition. And while literally shouting down such an individual who is in the act of stalking me. Another vacant dogmatist seeming very empathetic on occasions when parroting his favorite media chances to make him appear thus.

Funny devolving transgender to the broader 'gay', while not accepting sub-categories within transgender. Too much gets lumped in transgender IMO. Crossdresser, genderfluid, non-binary are all very different things than being MtF transgender.

[imperiouskitten]

Originally Posted by Nexii [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Funny devolving transgender to the broader 'gay', while not accepting sub-categories within transgender. Too much gets lumped in transgender IMO. Crossdresser, genderfluid, non-binary are all very different things than being MtF transgender.

honestly idk what he meant by it, played along ambiguously to humor him for some reason. called me "infertile" today too like that's no big deal to anyone or me. a real trans advocate, but i suppose he felt he was justified for striking back against my call to endeavor for human intimacy & not settle for lonely, vengeful weirdness (verboten). anyway juris is giving me hell for still posting. thanks for being a bright point around here. dont catch the rot here without my help smarty pants (i know you wont)

oh yeah and keep posting the erotic adventures. ur uncrushed spirit drives the turd mob crazy.

kick em in the truck nuts.

[HalflingSpergand]

Tldr gays saluting their shorts

[Cecily]

Originally Posted by Nexii [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Funny devolving transgender to the broader 'gay', while not accepting sub-categories within transgender. Too much gets lumped in transgender IMO. Crossdresser, genderfluid, non-binary are all very different things than being MtF transgender.

So you're complaining about being lumped in with the gays, but also upset that you're lumped in with the queens and other gender variant types. How can we best be sensitive to your special needs? Wouldn't wanna offend you, again.

[magnetaress]

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

That's absolutely right. Why I ask about the context in this case is you're referring to a schism between transmedicalists and everyone is valid Tumblr types. I'm sure you're very interested in all this but yeah anyways here we go: It comes down to whether or not dysphoria is considered a necessary requirement for transition. Like do it if this is killing you, but otherwise why the fuck would you do this unless you're hurting from not doing it? The tucute (to be cis) opposition thinks everyone is valid and the only stamp to get your transcard stamped is to identify as trans.

Both sides are assholes, but I'm truscum (transmedicalist) essentially. You generally see that with self-hating older hons (excellent word to add to your vocabulary btw) like me. Younger people are more accepting of anyone, so honestly it's not a bad thing, but you get cat Nazis in the mix when you let anyone in.

Terf rhetoric is especially incinidary if you want good troll fodder. Ask a trans woman to define what a woman is. There's literally no adequate answer to that. Kinda like defining Zen.

Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So you're complaining about being lumped in with the gays, but also upset that you're lumped in with the queens and other gender variant types. How can we best be sensitive to your special needs? Wouldn't wanna offend you, again.

Well, I definitely won't argue any of that. Great post.