Toxic assholes.

[magnetaress]

This person has all the resources they need. BTW. It's not like they can't go elsewhere.

They have NPD and manipulate people. Deliberately start massive projects and fail. Then blame me... because I avoided them... said absolutely nothing. They've blown at least 20k on a big project and have taken over 3 sheds and two driveways worth of space with all the useless shit They've hoarded.

If it was just me and them, it'd be a different story, but they've got two gaslit subjects in their thrall. Anything I do would hurt all three.

I don't want to hurt any of these people. I'm just frustrated and tired of silently soaking their abuse.

[Gravydoo II]

Originally Posted by magnetaress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

This person has all the resources they need. BTW. It's not like they can't go elsewhere.

They have NPD and manipulate people. Deliberately start massive projects and fail. Then blame me... because I avoided them... said absolutely nothing. They've blown at least 20k on a big project and have taken over 3 sheds and two driveways worth of space with all the useless shit They've hoarded.

If it was just me and them, it'd be a different story, but they've got two gaslit subjects in their thrall. Anything I do would hurt all three.

I don't want to hurt any of these people. I'm just frustrated and tired of silently soaking their abuse.

If you ALWAYS spare their feelings, what does that do to you?? What you're doing now.. Pretty obvious you resent them, now.

[magnetaress]

Originally Posted by Gravydoo II [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

If you ALWAYS spare their feelings, what does that do to you?? What you're doing now.. Pretty obvious you resent them, now.

Yeah. It makes me angry, resentful anxious and sick. And I'm constantly looking over my shoulder with distrust.

It's fucking me up.

I'm not Jesus and I don't want to be.

But I lived with an angry shameful asshole. So I absolutely refuse to pursue this. I can't handle escalation. When I tried just a tiny bit. It escalated.

I'm back to locking my doors and being 90% avoident. Fuck it.

Like I said I really needed to vent. I can't safely do anything.

I snuck out and made a meal and snuck back. No one ever knew I was there, and I cleaned shit. That's the only good thing I can do.