Who here has a Fetlife?

[abacab-winner]

Point blank, no such thing as vanilla in the fetish community.

Take lactation fetishists; either you like sucking milk out of titties or you don't, you don't even need to practice the fetish as you can satiate yourself with the thousands of videos, pictures, and erotica pertaining to that fetish...

Do people form ANR's to live out that fetish yes, in the same manner that these people will buy human breast milk and chug it; but it's not the ordinary. This is in contrast to the BDSM community which takes a more active approach, you got to take the plunge into it or you're vanilla, fetishists don't play by the same terminology.