I'll always rez if I'm not busy. If I'm busy I say why it is I can't rez (camping a mob/item, or grouped and don't want to leave the others with no cleric)...and 9/10 times they understand and some mutual politeness is a given.
If you're busy, the best way not to get into the OP's situation is to not switch on /anon or /roleplay. Regulars/guildmates will still know you're a cleric, but Joe Schmoe will look elsewhere. Arum knows this I'm sure, he's been a cleric far longer than me
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