Mid level group issues?

[valkabo]

I don't want to point fingers or say particular instances because I don't want to start any drama... but I am curious if anyone else is noticing this lately? It seems like 30+ I am just running into people who have no regard for a groups integrity.

By this I mean that they will risk a groups safety and well being(and of course, phat loot/xp) simply because they *want* to do something. Im not talking about doing risky camps because they want a drop or having 3 druids instead of a cleric. I simply mean people in a standard group setting who decide to disregard standard roles because they feel they are better at something.

If I had to give an example: A bard who demands he is main CC when they have a chanter in the group of equal or greater than level and such.

Yes, the bard can do it, but wtf is the enchanter doing then? Also, enchanter mez's cannot overwrite bard ones. Beyond all of that, enchanters are stacked to deal with these scenarios. If mez's break they have rapid cast AOE stuns and such to safe themselves and re-establish order.

Just issues where people seem hell bent on doing something because they are that arrogant about it.

When you guys run into this, what do you do? I typically try and sort it out in the group and request the safer alternative or offer my suggestion(I make a point of not commanding people. Instead i'll phrase it like "Hey, is there any reason the Paladin can't lull the mobs so the cleric doesn't die and we're stuck without a rez?"). If the group is hell bent on doing things in a stupid fashion I usually just leave. "This is dumb guys. Good luck!" and I leave. Is this wrong?

Edit: Forgot to ask the main point for posting this! Lol.

TL;DR: WTB Group where everyone does there role and thats it.