Making Half-Elf Bard...startings stats?

[mitic]

i was tempted to go for cha but then i went for dex when i created my bard.

highend ull need dex and cha for songs (as mentioned in above posts) since u wont be considered as a tank nor as a real dps

low and midlvl u can actually tank stuff in groups, it depends where your focus is at..raiding or casual grouping