Fasting. 2 days in.

[Cecily]

Originally Posted by Nexii [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Some are damaged beyond repair. An NPD ex will change your idealistic views that anyone can be redeemed or changed. It's just not the case

Does anyone need to be redeemed or changed? Did you think you could do it? You have to love people for who they are and realize that you have no control over them. It's entirely on them and, yeah change is possible, if they want it. It's also really, really fucking hard. Redemption is personal, not for others to decide.

I'm wondering if your damage with your ex was a control thing and you broke when you realized you had none. Speculating because I don't know honestly, but it fucked you up and I'm sorry that happened. Your viewpoint on people seems awfully black and white. I'm scum but I'm a good person too. Same for you. Same for shithead.