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Old 09-10-2015, 03:32 AM
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I remember when this aspie kid in my chem lab wore a shirt with that^ image on it and the caption "I heard you were pretty gangster. I am pretty gangster myself" to our lab meet. He was trying to woo my cute lab partner; she confided in me how creepy he was when he turned his back. Later on I broke a test tube and he looked right in my eyes and said "IDIOT!" This was the 2nd time we had met.
Ugh cringe. I had a good friend that had Asperger's. He was really really high functioning, ability to know what is cool, and what is not cool. Was "plugged in" (stayed up on current pop trends, made sure he was familiar with everything everyone was talking about, very current)

However, this didn't stop him from being downright socially awkward at times.

His try-hard overly "big man" body language, invading peoples personal space without proper social cues were some clues...

And sometimes when he was telling a "cool" story, he would not take the setting/audience into account, nor be able to read the audiences energy during the story and know when they were losing interest and when to wrap it up and stop.

He eventually moved to NY and was exposed to the "glamorous" gay bar scene of Midtown Manhattan. And to this day, he is why I am skeptical of the "gay wasn't a choice for me" agenda propaganda. He had a girlfriend he fucked until the blue sheets were dyed white over two semesters. He idolized Italian mafiosos and Italian cultural values. He was an ex-football player who was a little maladjusted, but never expressed any gay tendencies and was more homophobic than anything else.

Fast-forward to Senior year of college..Has gay college friends take him to gay bars. The notorious Manhattan gay bar scene, where your ego is stroked and being young and in shape makes you a god among men. Suddenly he finds himself getting something he never got from even the women who liked him: Attention. And his autistic brain just couldn't get the fuck over it, it was all he talked about, he was overnight OBSESSED with how much fun he was having in Manhattan at the gay bars.

I cut him off after 8 years of friendship. I'm not sure if he ended up being gay or not, I didn't care to find out and he didn't take a hint that it was something I wasn't looking to be solicited on. He was trying to explain how great it was and fun all the time, if he just kept it to himself like a cool and normal person we'd still be in touch.

Point is even the most cool and normal Aspie will eventually show some type of neurodevelopmental behavioral problem. Don't invest any time into them.

I don't care if you didn't read any of that.
 


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